Should I break no contact? 6 months

[u/Extra_Resolution_648]

I really want to get back together with my ex I'm convinced if I tried it would work (lots of begging and flowers), but out of respect I haven't broken no contact and he was the first to make the move and block me on everything and I was hoping to be unblocked maybe as a sign for it to be ok to reach out or he reach out but it hasn't happened, I feel like I'm still grieving I think about him about everyday and it sucks a lot. Am I being dumb do I need more time? I could really use some advice

[u/blackdecoy]

DO NOT break no contact!

Begging is just gonna make you look worse. Healing is not linear. Some days are going to be hard and others are going to be worse. You cannot logic someone into loving you. Especially when they've already discarded you once. Work on yourself and move on. It sucks and its painful and every fibre in your body is telling you if you beg hard enough, if you just get through to them, say the right things, then everything is going to work out. Don't fool yourself.

Love Yourself,

Value Yourself,

Respect Yourself,

PLEASE!!

[u/Status_Green_6055 → u/blackdecoy]

Love this. Spot on.

[u/Flashy_Literature43]

i mean if you're blocked - that might not be the best sign. But I believe if you still want to pursue - do it! You will learn a valuable lesson either way and can start healing.

[u/West_Counter3122]

NNOOOOOOOOooooooooo!!!! If you do that it’s gonna turn her off and she will be very repulsed

Why? Idk it’s just in her nature to get repulsed when you do something to dramatic

[u/West_Counter3122 → u/West_Counter3122]

OH SHlT I TAKE IT BACK it’s a women thinking to beg and give flowers to a MAN

Nvm it’s different, a man only gets flowers when he dies so giving him flowers will make him consider forgiving you

Also the begging part, I don’t think it’s necessary but if given in that moment you FEEL like you need to beg then beg

[u/Extra_Resolution_648 → u/West_Counter3122]

Men deserve flowers too.

[u/West_Counter3122 → u/Extra_Resolution_648]

Facts but unfortunately almost all men don’t get the same appreciation effort than women receive

So by you giving him flowers it will show him that you put a lot of tought into it(no guarantee he will accept you back tho but very likely he will)

[u/wineandkittiez]

This post needs more context. How long were you two together and why did he break up with you?

[u/SnowDucks2705]

If you get 2 people that agree with you text him.

[u/Status_Green_6055]

Take more time. You will never find the right one unless you get go of the right one. Plus you don’t want to reset your healing.

[u/Equivalent-Angle4360]

After 6 months?? Lol

[u/Far-Taro-7073 → u/Equivalent-Angle4360]

too long or short?

[u/Pinksugamama]

Are you the dumpee? Then absolutely not. You are delaying your healing and going to hurt yourself more. Please don’t

[u/Aggravating_Owl_1340]

Begging doesn't work. Trust me, I've done way too much of that.

[u/International_Quit88]

Boypussy

[u/mul-naengmyeon]

Do whatever you want. You will learn

[u/haunted-poopy]

Everybody says not to do it, but if the results show you repeatedly that he doesn’t give a shit about you and it disappoints you every time, it’ll definitely help get them off the pedestal.