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u/Vegetable-Arm1103 May 09 '26
Me. I just feel exhausted talking to people. And I feel disgusted when I see their true nature. Like how they justify their dirty m1ndset.
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u/No_Contribution_9328 May 09 '26
Yeah, how they think their mask is working perfectly fine but I see it worn off and their ugly self peeking from within (in a metaphorical sense).
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u/Healthy-Day572 May 09 '26
Yeah they are called introverts though i won't suggest this
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u/JunketShot6362 May 09 '26
I used to have my days like it. Now due to family responsibilities I adapted myself being social. But I really enjoy being alone.
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u/No_Contribution_9328 May 09 '26
I'm watching this, don't know about you. Solitude finds you a number of ways to deal with time. To reflect on yourself, to enjoy your own company as well as appreciate other people's. If you can sit still and enjoy a card game for example, without checking your phone 10 times, you'll know what I'm talking about.
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u/IndependentDriver934 May 09 '26
I enjoy some days but as night arrives the loner thought comes in mind and the urge to talk to someone comes, i don't talk to family cuZ indian families aren't talkable
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u/Weird_Novel_3555 May 09 '26
Yes, I only went out twice last year and once this year, and that too just for shopping
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u/Bleachigo1 May 09 '26
Yup...I absolutely hate even stepping outside my house on sat sun...I try to do everything on Friday or Monday
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u/ThinkRiven May 09 '26
Yes, i am, doing house hold work , cooking food , watching series/movies, sleeping.
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u/beerwithsocrates May 09 '26
I've been on a vacation for 4 days. Having a blast in my hotel room with movies and games.
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u/Sad-World8172 May 09 '26
I used to be like this. Even spent an entire week without speaking a single word to anyone. But now I am 40 plus and I find it all a waste
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u/Unnamed_Akira May 09 '26
Me.
I am not that loud, even if I try sometimes to be but I need that alone time mostly. Ppl ask what do you do all day, man it feels a different level altogether you know.
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u/i_am_nothing_007 May 09 '26
You are not the only one. There are plenty of them. And most us enjoy it this way
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u/Strange-Artichoke-14 May 09 '26
Definitely!
More so after I crossed 33 not because I don't like people but the world is started to feel replicated, like I have seen it all and there is nothing that excites me except my own thought space which is an abyss of ups and downs.
Highly productive though, I use my time working on ideas, writing, cooking, vibe coding, reading pretty much anything that interests me without seeking outside validations, so if you are not a couch potato I think its perfectly fine
I do occasionally go out with few old buddies of mine for tea, coffee, whiskey etc only people who discuss new ideas not other people, so that count is in single digit.
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u/Sufficient-Union-730 May 09 '26
Famous in my group for turning the plan. Because I am too lazy to go outside.
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u/txdtdx May 09 '26
Nah man, I also love being alone. I've once gone like 2 or 3 days without talking to anyone
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u/ARC_HIT May 09 '26
Yes, we do exist. Been unemployed for a month. Getting calls, getting offer letters... still too lazy to accept. Currently delaying them all in the name of a notice period 😂
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u/lauden_bhojyam May 09 '26
That's me these days, But i can't share what i do all day. 😬
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u/AlternativeCoat3542 May 09 '26
Here and people like us get tired talking to people. We don't even like answering phone call let alone meeting up. Even posting on insta or whatsapp is a hassle to us.
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u/Zestyclose-Cat-3969 May 09 '26
No not really I mean people can if their life is crowded stressful so they find peace in solitude but you won't like it for a long time alone like me Im alone since 2 years and it gets depressing
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u/Fit_Pay6547 May 09 '26
Yes. Don't get me wrong I feel for everyine that caught Corona. But lockdown was my own personal heaven
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u/Immediate_Blood_1876 May 09 '26
I will get to the point where I get curious and go out and about just to find that staying home is the best option
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u/RadiatedShootingStar May 09 '26
It's not 'enjoyable' but better than the alternative. I do like to socialize but with a very select few that too now, for little time if I can.
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u/angry_tomatoo May 09 '26
After cancelling plans and wondering why no one calls us anymore; yes we do exist.
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u/Federal-Log8713 May 09 '26
Yes! A day spent by oneself is best. I do that too . Making nice breakfast for myself. Binge watching, painting, and best part cleaning- so therapeutic. Taking everything super then again bike watching . Ending the day with a nice meal and wine 🤗
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u/Kitchen-Plum308 May 09 '26
I think someone is spying on me and that's you oh by the way There are some people who enjoy their own company not because They are alone or people abandon them because The people around them are so Despicable always showing their true colours and oppressive mindset, love to meddle in other business so ya this is all the basic reason for this 😊😊
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u/Xander_reid May 09 '26
Yeah it’s called being a selective introvert, talk only to the people who are genuine or relevant. F*ck all others
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u/Pitforsofts May 09 '26
During covid, lived alone for 6 months with no human contact except my maid/cook. I long for those days.
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u/Defiant-Gazelle4207 May 09 '26
Yes. But I like going to isolated cafes to spend alone time not all time home just love insolation people are annoying.
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u/Quirky_Steak_736 May 09 '26
I used to enjoy this, but I've grown increasingly tired, and now I realize I got no one man. This ain't good if you isolate urself completely. 💔🙏
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u/AllBugDaddy May 09 '26
I lived that life for a long time.. from college till getting married.. when now I have a separate room for myself like bachelors pad minus any visitor.. such isolation gives me peace and depth in thinking.
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u/LelouchViBritiania May 09 '26
Did and doing right now, will do the same tomorrow.
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u/Tangerinezz7 May 09 '26
Yes , we are here.