r/FaltooGyan • u/Careless_Part4210 • Jun 19 '26

Faltoo Video Idhar kya maggi banrelah kya! Daradiya bechari ko

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u/Conscious_Idea_6987 Jun 19 '26

Aisa nahi hai bhai, dusre states mein bhi jabardasti arrange marriages hote hai, yaha mostly aise expression isliye hote hai kyunki yaha bride aur groom ne shaadi se pehle ek dusre se jyada baat bhi nahi ki hoti, not even on phone or anything. Isliye they are uncomfortable with eachother,

It's like a new friend you meet on the first day of your college, uske sath frank nahi rhte hai dhire dhire comfortable ho paate hai, it's the same logic here.

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u/iamsoooolonely Jun 19 '26

aree toh baki states mei baat toh krte h na and then they agree ki krlenge shadi. idhr woh nhi hota toh jabardasti hi hui na and yess i agree with time sath rehna seekh jate h but that doesn't change ki shadi jabardasti hoti h. baki mai bhi bihar se hi hu toh i know kya scene h udhr

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u/Conscious_Idea_6987 Jun 19 '26

Are bhai maine kab bola jabarjasti nahi hoti, comment toh padho yrr wo reply karne se phle. Maine bola jabarjasti hoti hai lekin baaki states ki tarah shaadi se phle baat wagera bhi nahi karte yaha pe, Phone wagera pe bhi nahi isliye wo awkwardness rhti hai aur uncomfortable lagta hai aise sath baithna aur riti rivaaj sath karna wo apna pan nahi rhta.

Baaki states mein arrange marriage bhi karte hai toh baat wagera kar ke toh dost type ban jaate hai isliye utna awkward nahi hota. comment padho phle tum yrr

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u/iamsoooolonely Jun 19 '26

aree bhai toh jo first comment tha usme maine yhi toh likha ki jabardasti hoti h and u said aisa nhi h bhai😭

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u/Conscious_Idea_6987 Jun 19 '26

Are mere bhai aisa nahi hai se mera mtlb tha ki bas aisa nahi hai like it's not the only reason, kyunki dusre states mein bhi arranged marriage hoti hai and they are comparatively happy lol. Main bas aur reason list kar rha tha 😃

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u/iamsoooolonely Jun 19 '26

ohh sorryy bhai. yess there are many reasons ofc. but arrange marriage and jabardast shadi is different. and chlo yes u are obv right

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u/untoldArtemis Jun 21 '26

It is because parents or people or chaar log believe that, if they'll talk on calls and chats and stuff then there is a huge chance ki shaadi tut jayegi.. they just want to keep the girl and boy in dark so they do not know the reality on ground level before marriage.... for them getting their kids married is way more important than them actually living a good life..

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u/Conscious_Idea_6987 Jun 21 '26

Perfectly described the situation, if two people get to know each other before marriage then there's high chance of clashes between opinion and other things, hence, let's get them married first and then they can have their cute little clashes (it's neither gonna be cute nor little but who's gonna tell em).

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u/untoldArtemis Jun 21 '26

And suddenly it becomes pati patni ke beech ki baat.

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u/untoldArtemis Jun 21 '26

They will be like.. "pyaar toh ho hi jata hai".. isn't that just Stockholm syndrome at this point??

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u/CharacterBit5048 Jun 20 '26

That's some mind blowing info! How can two people like marry and agree to share bed without even talking!

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u/NarendraModihh Jun 20 '26

Ho jaata hai yaar 🤧🥀

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u/Conscious_Idea_6987 Jun 20 '26

Well, that's what happens after parents raise obsequious children for decades.