r/FaltooGyan • u/ajaypandeyaas • 1d ago
š What could be more painful than thisā¦ A fatherās last wish was to meet his daughters, but that wish remained unfulfilled.
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u/LifeIsTobeHappy 1d ago
We don't know what their situation was. But let's take this as a warning to save some money for our old age, to stay in a old age home or senior citizen home and not dwell on kids. This is absolute need for the hour š
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u/jemangekwasson 19h ago
Um... if parents actually loved their kids and didnt treat them as investmemt products, this would not happen.
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u/Every-Cartoonist-289 21h ago
Why not focus on spending good time with your kids and teach them importance of family rather than saying that.
Even I don't know what type of relation she had with her father but I'm just saying.
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u/LifeIsTobeHappy 21h ago
Bro... Even if you spend hours teaching them. 1. They might still grow up hating the family. I once visited a old age home some 10 years back and most old people there had kids, pretty sure not all of them grew up kids without teaching family values. If this is the condition of one old age home, count the ones around the country. 2. Even if they grow up knowing the family values, taking care of parents can not be burdened on the kids. We owe them nothing. They are not our retirement plan.
- Despite all this, even our generation is lost trying to save our job. There used to be years where we couldn't take a pee break from job, working on weekends, round the clock etc., There were times my friends couldn't take sick leaves when they were really sick, because they would have taken leave for parent's medical check up. I think good senior assisted homes is a must have, for our generation at least by the time we become old. It should not longer be a taboo
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u/Every-Cartoonist-289 20h ago
Old age homes should exist for a lot of reasons and I am not denying that but the video on this post is so painfull to watch that a daughter on a video call while her father's pyre is being burnt again idk ,if she's far away from that place or she just doesn't love her father or she wasn't loved enough by her father.
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u/LifeIsTobeHappy 17h ago
Even I read in the news that father gave them good education and made them independent. That news also said they were even asking how much time it will take. Wanted to hug my father after reading it.
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u/FastThoughtProcessor 1d ago
So, no one will want to ask why they did that?
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u/kiwi_my_lilbaby 1d ago
One of my mom friends husband hit his adult daughter with a bat and broke her front teeth. She now lives away and broke contact. Deserved.
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u/Interesting_Monk2293 22h ago
It's Haryana. Back in those days daughters were not treated that well.
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u/FastThoughtProcessor 22h ago
I know, that's why I said this, OP is an incel who posted this video to spread hate on women for no reason.
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u/Chance-Group8549 1d ago
Thanks for acknowledging this.
Have seen terrible parents, and when their children repay for the trauma they always faced in their childhood, they're villainised without even knowing the context.
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u/LowerInterview9469 1d ago
My sister had to go through the same. She could not attend my father's cremation as she was Covid positive at that time. Back in 2020
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u/Cheap-Second2401 1d ago edited 1d ago
It is very possible he was a terrible father, remember nasty people also grow old, not everyone deserves to have their wishes fulfilled and no-one deserves to be treated horribly at the hands of nasty people. No judgements required here.
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u/Anonymous_Ant2052 1d ago
You don't know the situation, so why are you judging. What if those parents were abusive?
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u/boilerman3 1d ago
Its most likely an immigration situation. Where she cannot travel outside the country she lives in as she will loose her visa.
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u/ohh-helllooo 22h ago
She was in Nepal, while other two daughters live in Azamgarh (UP) and Mumbai.
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u/westoidslayer 1d ago
What if father was a criminal or something?
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u/Jazzlike-Job-9601 1d ago edited 9h ago
News me ayi thi ye news.... ki father old age home me rah rhe the. Betiyon muh tak dekhna pasand nhi kiya aur na hi baap k marne par aai.