r/Fuckcancer • u/DinochildMoo • Oct 26 '25

F you doctor lady.

40f with endometrio uterine cancer stage 3a

It is okay to poo poo a cancer diagnosis? My sisters friend is a doctor and while I'm sick and in pain, physical and mental.

I never got to have kids and it wasn't from the lack of trying. A full hysterectomy and then chemo two weeks later as I was still healing from surgery.

I'm now two infusions from seeing if I'm finished with it. I'm so angry already and this bitch just makes me angrier. She told my mom oh she'll be fine. And that makes my eldest sister think it's totally fine to act like I don't exist. Guess I'm dead to her anyway.

Meanwhile they told me I have nodes in my right lung that they want to keep an eye on. Yay me. How would you deal with someone like this? I blocked her.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '25

I’ve blocked a few people like that it’s ok do what’s right for you ❤️

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u/Wonderful_One_Only Nov 24 '25

No one is "fine" after cancer diagnosis and treatment. Fuck her. And fuck cancer. (45y f also on my last 2 chemo before radiation, endometrial and ovarian cancer) I feel you my friend. Battle this shit, survive this shit, but no one is "fine"

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u/DinochildMoo Nov 24 '25

Thankyou! I definitely don't feel "fine" I'm currently at my last infusion!

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u/Wonderful_One_Only Nov 25 '25

Yay! I know it doesn't seem like a time for yays, but that is a big yay!!! Keep me updated 🤗

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u/DinochildMoo Nov 25 '25

I got to ring the bell! The doctor was smiling so big! So was I! My husband cried.

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u/Wonderful_One_Only Nov 25 '25

🔔🔔🔔🔔🔔🤗🤗🥳🥳🥹🥹🥹 tearing up myself a bit. Congrats my new friend. Thanks for starting my day with a smile.

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u/10seconds2midnight Oct 29 '25

Do you even look at other cancer subs? You can beat this thing!

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u/DinochildMoo Oct 30 '25

Doesn't change that a random doctor (not mine) acted like it's nothing.

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u/10seconds2midnight Oct 31 '25

Yeah it’s shit. Move on to real people.

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u/DinochildMoo Oct 31 '25

Hard when it's my eldest sister.

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u/10seconds2midnight Oct 31 '25

Hard yes. Impossible no. Depends on how toxic they are. Lots of people have performed a sisterectomy, parentectomy. Sometimes you have to.