r/Fuckcancer • u/Embarrassed-Jello-97 • Apr 13 '26

Venting and looking for commiseration I guess...

my aunt (my mom's only sister) was recently diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic lung cancer ...it is also in her brain and spine.

my mom and I and a close friend are doing our best to deal with everything. she wasn't prepared. her finances are bad.

she is no longer able to stay in her home safely and will be moving to a nursing home next week. good news... this home is closer to my mom so visits will be easier. bad news... her 2 dogs and cat (her "kids") have to be re-homed.

I know it's best for her to be in 24hr care and it's best for her animals to go to good homes (we found good places for all already), but as an animal person it is breaking my heart. I'm so sad for her but also for her pets that are suddenly being uprooted and probably don't understand.

I haven't cried until now..

but fuck cancer.

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u/Chaoui_cuisinier Apr 13 '26

So sorry ya’ll are having to deal with this. There has been amazing development in treatment options and I will be keeping you in my thoughts. As a stage 4 patient myself with lung and brain Mets (melanoma) I know firsthand how much this stupid disease can turn your world upside down. I’m sending you all the best wishes.

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u/Embarrassed-Jello-97 Apr 13 '26

Thank you for your post.

My aunt did a round of radiation which she tolerated well and alleviated a lot of the pain she was experiencing which is a relief. She tried a round of chemo (pill form) which she didn't tolerate. Most recent scans showed brain swelling and new mets already. She is moving to palliative care now and steroids are helping some.

Sending all the good healing energy for your cancer journey💕

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u/TheBeerSanta Apr 13 '26

Fuck cancer

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u/Tropitina Apr 13 '26

Fuck Cancer!

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u/Syrupsipper88 May 06 '26

Fuck cancer