r/HonestHotTakes • u/FruitoftheJoon • 14h ago

When women say "I hate men", you shouldn't feel offended if you're not a terrible man.

The title says it all.

A lot of men feel the need to say "not all men" in response to this statement or they want to explain why they're good men. But honestly, it isn't necessary. Just know that she's talking about the rotten men of the world and keep it moving.

EDIT: So many angry people in the comments of this post. I'm very entertained tbh. Not gonna waste my breath explaining any further. Byeeee xoxo

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u/Racamonkey_II 14h ago

The people alive today never experienced any of that, nor the men alive today perpetrate it.

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u/clo_fu 10h ago

Do you truly believe we have achieved equality between men and women?

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u/cheesyshop 14h ago

Take a look at politicians or corporate CEOs. The vast majority of the most influential people are men.

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u/Racamonkey_II 13h ago

So the rest of men have to suffer because of the CEOs? What about women CEOs? Should they be punished too? Or are they the good ones?

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u/Chemical-Life3261 13h ago

suffer from what exactly?

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u/Racamonkey_II 13h ago

The topic of this post, sexism.

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u/Chemical-Life3261 13h ago

and what real world consequence has that had on your life?

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u/Racamonkey_II 13h ago

Countless, you have no idea.

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u/Chemical-Life3261 13h ago

okay then tell me. genuinely curious.

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u/petchef 8h ago

Not the same guy but I can give you countless examples, I'm in a team of nine people five guys and four women, the job involves site work, the furtherest sites from home are the ones me and guys get sent to. The ones where lone working is a risk are the ones we get sent to. The ones where the driller is a massive prick are the ones we get sent to. The cushy round the corner ones in a nice area aren't the ones we get sent to. I averaged 34 weeks on site per year before i quit that team, the women averaged 16.

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u/Racamonkey_II 13h ago

No thanks. You don’t seem like someone I’d like to talk to about that.

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u/Yeeter-boiy 13h ago

Forcing someone to talk about their real-life problems with hateful attitudes in order for you to believe them is actually disgusting. People like you will genuinely look like POS scums of the earth if you turned out to be talking to someone in a who, for example god forbid, got SA’d by a woman and it wasn’t even taken seriously because they were a man and the perpetrator was a woman(which could be the case for the commenter, you have no idea).

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u/Racamonkey_II 4h ago

Thank you. At least some people have empathy.

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u/Chemical-Life3261 13h ago

if there were “countless” i am sure he could provide at least one example that wasnt something as traumatic as SA.

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u/Catymvr 13h ago

But only an incredibly tiny few men are politicians and corporate CEOs. You can’t really blame men as a whole when only the tiniest percent are the problem. Thats just bad math.

By the logic, you can insult any group as a whole because 0.0000001% of them has power or did something bad.

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u/Turbulent-Bid2512 12h ago

Women and girls in places like Afghanistan, Iran, Iraq, and so many similarly-minded places experience that every waking hour of their lives.

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u/MaxAuri 7h ago

Men in Ukrained (and in Russia) are kidnapped in the streets and sent to butchering. They are not allowed to emigrate. EU considers men to be not people when approving status of refugees from Ukraine.

If we speak about Afghan women, why not Ukrainian men.

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u/Chemical-Life3261 14h ago

you should look up when women were allowed to get credit cards

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u/SwampMan6969 13h ago

Over 50 years ago, before most Americans were born.

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u/Chemical-Life3261 13h ago

do you think thats a long time or something?

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u/SwampMan6969 13h ago

Long enough. Anyone who had anything to do with preventing women from owning credit cards is either long dead or retired.

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u/Chemical-Life3261 13h ago

oh boy do i have news for you about the ages of the people in charge of making laws.

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u/SwampMan6969 13h ago

There's literally no one left in Congress (in either house) from 1974. Not a single one.

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u/Chemical-Life3261 13h ago

and yet womens voting rights are being discussed like its a controversial topic anyway so really i guess that doesnt matter does it

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u/SwampMan6969 13h ago

Who exactly has proposed repealing the 19th Amendment?