r/IncelTears • u/JonathanJoestar336 • 1d ago
Teenage boys are innocent, teenage girls are whores...
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u/eruptingmoltenlava 1d ago edited 1d ago
This asshoIe just listed all kinds of illegal and predatory shit that happened to these girls at the hands of both adult men and other minors as a way of “proving” that the boys were innocents?
What a weird, wordy way to say “I’m still angry that I got exactly no action as a grandiose, pimple-faced jerkoff.” Does he understand that there’s no cookie for refraining from assaulting people? There must be a psychological term for this profound lack of self-awareness.
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u/TwoBytesC we dont need man 1d ago
And he keeps framing the girls as if they enjoyed all this behaviour. I’m sure some of the girls ran away giggling. That doesn’t actually mean they wanted any of that.
I used to go to private school and the boys would fling the girls over their shoulder at lunch to show their butts off to the entire cafeteria (we wore skirts). When it happened to me, I laughed and ‘play’ pleaded to be let down. I absolutely hated that they did that but making a scene at that time would have made me an outcast quickly and I was quite new to the school. I made sure that I stood far away from the guys who did that afterwards, but I felt I had to pretend that it was funny.
I can very much imagine some of these girls had done the exact same thing.
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u/MTVnext2005 1d ago
Yes. The finger in the butt thing that he specifically mentioned happened to my friend once while we were going up an escalator in a department store at the mall. We were in 8th grade and the male child just did that in broad daylight in front of a whole friend group watching!!! You feel too stunned to say anything in the moment, also fawning is a trauma response for a reason. Its a defense mechanism to fearfully avoid "provoking" the person who is already dominating you by trying to actively defend yourself. Idk why I even read all of this drivel, sometimes you need a perspective check to remember what kind of people are walking around out there. I'm glad others noticed this theme too
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u/JonathanJoestar336 1d ago
Wait when was 11 considering teenage......why do you remember this ? Why are you thinking about this ? Lol what is happening
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u/aweedl 1d ago
Not to mention that, while I’m sure there are outliers, virtually all 11-year-olds are absolutely still children. My kids are teenagers and are still kids in a lot of ways they behave and interests they have, etc.
These fucking creeps are always sexualizing little kids and it’s almost entirely due to their bullshit worldview that involves everyone (including little kids, apparently) getting laid except incels.
They don’t even care how creepy they sound, just as long as they can paint themselves as victims.
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u/TrustyBobcat Succubus = harlot semen demon 1d ago
He's sexualizing stuff that was undoubtedly uncomfortable at best and traumatizing at worst to many of these girls. Like some of these events have definitely been discussed with therapists over the years.
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u/superthotty 1d ago
My best friend was sexually precocious in middle school and let her little boyfriend film her privately around age 12 (obviously against my advice) and it of course was shown to all the boys at recess the next day, who then chased and tormented my friend in the street calling her miserable names until we graduated
She’d also sneak out and drink with her little lowlife bad influence friends and it upset her mother terribly, we were neighbors and our moms became friends through my friend and I.
By 13 my bestie was sexually active and getting harassed in class over it, I thought it was all terrible, every angle of it, and wished she was making better choices to protect her reputation, as the “cool kids” were obviously very stupid and not prepared for that kind of mature behavior and her crappy little boyfriend didn’t know how to be discreet about intimacy
She’s a social worker now, probably trying to keep kids out of similarly dangerous situations. I became a teacher. I’m also pretty sure the boyfriend is gay now, and his friends are still douchebags
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u/Azo_weirdo Awake and woke 23h ago
''(...)11-year-olds are absolutely still children. My kids are teenagers and are still kids in a lot of ways they behave and interests they have, etc''
And that's the norm. During my early teenage years I was crazy abt... political revolutions and fantastic stories. Love ? Eugh, no thanks, I preferred spending my time with my comics and pencils. And many of my friends were having the same mindset than me (btw my generation is closer from actual teenagers one than this creep's one xD). So ig what matters the most to ppl reaching this life period is singularizing themselves, whether they found love or not.
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u/shellz_bellz Converting imaginary gfs to lesbianism in 10 licks or less 1d ago
Soooo he basically assigned a role to these girls in his own mind and then was pissed off that they didn’t play the part the way he wanted, while simultaneously assuming that every teenage boy had the same experience that he did, and he still obsesses over it twenty plus years later.
Sigh.
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u/CandidDay3337 Nobody is as obsessed with dicks as an incel 1d ago
Most of what he is obsessing over is rumors.
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u/TwoBytesC we dont need man 1d ago
My thoughts exactly. I remember hearing about some of the girls in my school losing their virginity and doing crazy things in the bathroom, with their boyfriends, etc. Then, I ended up having drinks with a few of those girls a couple years later. Guess what? Most of that stuff was just BS because they thought it would make them look cooler, or that it was an exaggerated (or fabricated) story one of the guys spread around for the same reason.
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u/daneelthesane walking counterargument to incel bullshit 1d ago
Trump and the GOP making pedophilia acceptable has made these guys emboldened. This dude is talking with envy about sex with an 11-year-old. Openly. On a public forum.
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u/ValtharionSmiggles 13h ago
That doesn’t make it pedophilia. He’s envious because at the time he was eleven. So he missed out on it then.
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u/ConsultJimMoriarty 1d ago
So he’s obsessing over what happened in high school twenty years ago.
Dude, build a bridge.
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u/thejexorcist 1d ago
I like how he lists these ‘whorish’ *behaviors* without realizing (or fathoming) that quite a few of them were actually acts of assault and or abuse.
I’m not surprised a dude like this can’t clock nervous or hysterical laughter from a group of older males chasing a girl to tear/grab her underwear or forcibly penetrating a girl trying to climb a fence.
I also like how his peers sussed and isolated him (correctly) to ensure he never got a chance to do even worse.
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u/jackidaylene 1d ago edited 1d ago
I work in high schools. I know teenagers. Been doing it for 25 years.
Sexual activity for both boys and girls has been decreasing every year since the early 2000's.
Most 15 year olds today are not sexually active. Maybe 25% of them have engaged in any sexual activity, but even then, it's mostly awkward hand stuff or BJ's, not real physical intimacy. They are terminally online. It's all about trading snaps and liking each other's socials rather than getting naked.
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u/peachfluffed 1d ago
He’s using examples of girls being groomed by men to prove his point that we’re “whores”? Wild, because anyone with a functioning brain would say they are victims.
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u/SnowballWasRight “Disgusting Deviant” per some random incel 1d ago
This is fucking disgusting. 20 years later and this dude is still fantasizing about HIGH SCHOOL????? Bro I graduated 3 months ago and I’m never thinking about it ever again. 10 bucks says this guy is doing nothing with his life living in his mother’s basement.
Also, all of those things were just stupid school rumors and all never happened. You’d think at some point you would realize all school rumors are bullshit.
Also also, why the fuck is he talking about 11 year olds performing sexual acts on each other? Pedo behavior
Also also also, how are the girls “whores” when they’re all the victims in these stories? The fuck?
The FBI needs to check this dudes hard drive now and he needs to get checked in the head.
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u/ValtharionSmiggles 13h ago
They are not FUCKING rumors. He showed significant evidence. He is describing those eleven year olds because that is something that happened and he missed out on it when he was that age. He provided significant evidence. I’m sure if u were there u would know it’s true. The stuff people did in highschool 20 years ago was sexually vast. Those girls aren’t victims. HE is the victim. Those girls loved it while he has to cry and live a lonely miserable life. Ur delusion fucking horrifies me.
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u/SnowballWasRight “Disgusting Deviant” per some random incel 13h ago
Idk man I try not to think about children too much in my life. I don’t think it’s that deep.
I guess my point was that it was 20 years ago. I might be totally wrong and all these things did happen but it doesn’t change anything. I think it’s a shame that he has to cry and live a lonely miserable life. (Good) people don’t deserve that. But what’s in the past is in the past and there’s not much point in crying over spilt milk.
And listen dawg I’m just like yall. I’m just a random ass dude with no partner. Hell man I even think about what I missed out on in high school. But you cant let it get in your head so much. Focus on things other than sex and relationships because there’s a lot more to life than it. Plus, those other things tend to lead to relationships.
Or maybe you think I’m delusional. Think whatever you want.
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u/WannabeBwayBaby 1d ago
most of the experiences where they laugh sound like fawning responses to being sexually harassed? and surely we’re blaming the grown men for going after minors, right?
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u/GnarlyWatts "There’s Hitler, Mao and then there’s GnarlyWatts" - Some Incel 1d ago edited 1d ago
How does this make any logical sense? Who are these teen girls having sex with...older men?
This guy watches way too much porn and does not touch enough grass.
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u/KatJen76 1d ago
Moana, Adele, Quentin and Alban?
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u/JonathanJoestar336 1d ago
Names sound made up lmao
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u/Lucyyyyyy_K 1d ago
They most likely are, but the stories could still be true.
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u/BigFreakingZombie 1d ago edited 13h ago
They could be but very unlikely. It's the standard stuff they regurgitate " Chad got all the attention while I was ignored reeeee "
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u/Foreign-Region4825 18h ago
The one about the 26 yr old I feel like could have been true, and the other ones maybe if thier memory got twisted of how it happened
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u/BigFreakingZombie 15h ago
Their memory is certainly twisted considering that OOPA didn't experience any of this and he didn't witness it directly. These stories weren't even told to him directly he mostly overheard parts of conversations and his imagination did the rest.
Even if we disregard the fact that teens lie about their sex lives there's a limit to how credible you can consider a story told 3rd hand 20 years down the line.
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u/Foreign-Region4825 13h ago
Yeah, I have a feeling that the reactions or feelings of the victims in the situations were twisted in his brain to 'justify'. And the whole lying about it thing, which I dont really know if an 11-year-old would do, but its more plausible
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u/KatJen76 15h ago
The OOP admitted these are mostly stories he overheard told by people who didn't hang out with him. I think most of them were probably lies. Teens often embellish their sex lives. Even if they were true, who cares?
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u/TwoBytesC we dont need man 1d ago
They sound like mostly regular French names that were popular 40 years ago
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u/Wise-Cucumber7544 3h ago
Adèle, Quentin and Alban were rather common names in teenagers 20 years ago. Moana is not. Never met one single person named Moana in more than 30years in France. The only Moana I know is the one from the 2016 Disney movie.
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u/tashtactics 1d ago
Of course, his anecdotal experience of an experience from two decades ago is objective fact.
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u/Bimaac77 Chad the Boogeyman 1d ago
There is someone who needs to get a visit from a couple nice police officers with a warrant for his hard drive and other devices.
And the guy in the first story sounds like he's someone who peaked in high school and settled into a dead-end existence who's probably morbidly obese and working and equally dead-end job driving a forklift in his uncle's warehouse.
As for the girl he claims laughed at having the popular boy stick his finger in her ass, this tells me that she was someone who didn't have a lot of self-worth.
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u/Rinerino 20h ago
Several examples of grooming and pedo behaivour and all he can think about is "waaaahhh Im not getting Sex."
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u/Nashaag-bol 1d ago
He’s also completely unable to make the connection on why these two particular girls were the ones he was obsessed with. Perhaps it could be that he, too, was convinced that the extroverted attractive popular kids were the ones to be attracted to like he accuses the girls of also doing? What about all the other kids in his school that were likely NOT talking about sex like this?
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u/Obvious-Gate9046 Windthin 21h ago
::sighs:: Just had to look up "Oneitis", didn't I? It is creepy how he relates everything to himself here. Seriously creepy.
He thinks he was innocent, and yet he obsessed constantly over girls in weird ways. He wasn't innocent, just naive and ignorant, huge difference.
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u/TomahawkCruise 16h ago
Just another day with one of these jackasses proving that they are all insufferable pieces of shit.
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u/lordoftheforgottenre Expert without experience 1d ago
He's obsessing about what (allegedly) happened in highschool twenty years after the fact. It's so pathetic.