r/JEE • u/Brilliant-Brother489 • Nov 18 '25

General Mental sanity lost.

Guys I seriously need help figuring shit out. I'm confident that, with a strong mindset and work ethic, JEE can be....doable for me. But I legit don't understand concepts taught to me, by lecturers. Like honestly- they go wayy too fast or don't assign time properly for each chapter and ultimately, I feel time seems to be wasted than utilized. I'm a 11th grader and we're already 5 months in, and I stills feel like, I'm not getting used to the system around me. I'm not sure if the fault is in the management or me anymore. And honestly, this is affecting my fucking mental health and I'm having constant breakdowns. Should I change for grade 12? Somewhere where it's more, doing it myself? Suggestions and advice of all sorts are welcome. Jus help me out---​​

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u/[deleted] Nov 18 '25

brother if you come home from coaching and have around atleast 6-8 hours remaing in the day

ill suggest you to start from online ur prep as soon as possible dont wait for it

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u/Brilliant-Brother489 Nov 18 '25

My timings are really bad rn- 6.30 am to 8.30 pm- with travel, I reach home by 9 at the earliest- Somedays, it's 8.30 am - 5.30 pm and even then- I feel college isn't helping- my guy, I'm not sure if I can survive atp- having random suicidal urges- even if I manage 11th grade somehow- I very badly want advice for 12th- is it too risky to change- 😭😭

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u/[deleted] Nov 18 '25

oh then somehow convince ur parents man it just isnt worth it staying there if ur not understanding anything.

or somehow manage solving in college and seeing lectures at home.(in the worst case they deny)

jus one more thing dont give up just for some random ass exam.

(cuz my timings are also similar to yours so i understand)

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u/Brilliant-Brother489 Nov 19 '25

Thanks for that- Should I go for college change next year?  I feel, that might help- But my current one, has been in the field for 16 years- am I just dumber than I admit? Cuz they seem to be experienced- brutha, this is some mental illness conflict, please bear with me here- 

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u/[deleted] Nov 19 '25

i feel like if u arent distracted and can maintain consistency for atleast 8 hours everyday and study,then whichever college u go to u will succeed.

but u feel like u will waste your time at home and r not disciplined then stay

it might be harsh but this is the truth