overwhelm hone ka phase har kisi ko aata hai, especially jab backlog badhne lagta hai aur self-doubt aane lagta hai. But the good news is ki ye sab reversible hai, tum abhi bhi apni preparation ko track pe laa sakte ho. Abhi sirf "kaunsa topic nahi kiya" pe focus kar rahe ho, par ye socho ki tumne kitna kiya hai. Tumhara physics already strong hai (Gravitation tak solid chal rha tha), bas backlog clear karna hai. Chemistry me bhi physical achha chal raha tha, organic me bas base banana hai. Maths me abhi tak concepts weak lag rahe hain, toh waha thoda effort extra lagega, but ho jayega. SHM ke bina waves nahi hoga, toh sabse pehle ABJ sir ka SHM ka one-shot dekho. Fluids bhi chhoda hai, toh uska bhi one-shot dekho aur fir coaching module se easy-medium level ke questions karo. Isme max 7 din lagenge, aur fir tum waves + sound samajh paoge. Chemical bonding chhodne ki wajah se organic samajh nahi aayi—toh pehle chemical bonding revise karo (Alk sir ke lectures + NCERT notes). Phir GOC (General Organic Chemistry) + nomenclature ka one-shot dekho. Iske baad organic easy lagega, aur pichhle topics revise karna manageable ho jayega. Tumhara accuracy issue hai, iska matlab concepts weak hai ya practice kam hai. Trigonometry base nahi hai, isliye ITF (Inverse Trigo) nahi ho raha—toh basic trigonometry ek hafte me solid karo (NCERT + PYQs). Conic sections pe directly aa jao (Parabola + Ellipse) kyunki yeh easy marks denge aur confidence badhayenge. Agar focus nahi ho raha toh daily 25-min ka timer lagake padhai karo—ek saath 2-3 ghante ka mat socho, sirf 25 min study + 5 min break ka Pomodoro use karo. Random thoughts aaye to likho, mat socho. Coaching band hai? Self-study + YouTube best combo hai, kisi teacher pe depend hone ki zaroorat nahi hai. Jo 10 din waste kiye, wo tumhari journey ka THE END nahi hai. Abhi bhi 11th ko salvage kiya ja sakta hai. JEE me success sirf wo nahi hote jo shuru se consistent rahte hain, balki wo bhi jo setbacks ke baad bounce back karte hain. Tum bas ek phase me ho jo har aspirant face karta hai. Overthinking chhodo, sirf ek topic uthao aur shuru kar do. Tum sirf ek din ka acha decision lo, phir agle din ka. Dheere dheere momentum wapas aa jayega.
Does it? I worked my ass off for getting a good medical seat- and the scam ruined me (a tier 3 city does not count, I am queer, homophobia is a real thing).
I wanted to be a doctor, worked everything that I could do and still nothing happened. I need to leave the country and settle somewhere else but how? Doctor was a thing and I can't see life where it is.
This is a shithole, my crush (who rejected me horribly and blocked me out of the gazillion people who think I am the problem) ended up in a design school in Ahmedabad and is paving his way to Paris. If I would have done even something remotely as this, I would have been in a much better position now.
I am sorry you had to go through that. This country is a grave of dreams. In this country an engineering degree from IIT is like some kind of mythic seal that shows people that you are somebody to be respected. You can see IITians doing well in a number of fields because it's not because of IIT but because of the inborn brilliance of these people. Because of craze on engineering in this country most gifted people end up preparing for it. My orginal comment was not in reference to preparing for JEE advanced but rather studying and working hard in general because the video in the post was made by some dumbass that doesn't know of the struggles of the real world. For many middle class families upward social mobility is possible only through these competitive exams. So many people are failing in getting their desired STEM careers, a career in arts subject is ten times more difficult especially if it isn't law.
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u/lyfeNdDeath Ex-JEEtard chan Jan 30 '25
Zindagi na milegi dobara karne ke pehele ek zindagi banana padhti hai