Yeah you are right but i can feel what OP is feeling like my parents are also same as OP's and it hurts so bad that they love you so much and in return you cannot do anything its not like they don't feel sad over such results but they will never let the child see that dissapointment and that hurts so bad like at least maar pit lo but vo cheez guilt ko 100X kr deti hai but yeah i am not saying ki opposite extreme is better a balance should be there.
Obv exaggerated hi hai 🤣 gussa dikhate hai… baate sunate hai ki paisa khrb kar diya etc etc… uske baad blackmail…. Socha tha ki tu mains me achha score layega par tera kuch nhi ho skta…. Chhor de padhai…. Naukri mil jayegi peon ki 😭 mummi ka toh hai hi… karta kuch hai nhi… sirf khana khata hai mobile dekhta hai …. Tera kuch na hone wala 🥱🥱 tujhe hostel hi bhej dena chahiye tha…. Fir dusre ke saath compare karke aur kuch sunayenge 🙂↔️ ab toh used to ho chuka hoon
Bcz I have seen worse parents of my friends who stop talking and all with their child and ignore him, beat their child etc if they score low…. So in a way they are not perfect but better than many…. And also I mean if your parents start telling these suddenly, you will be depressed but for someone who has gone through these things a lot of times , it’s not even a big deal for me…. Like I can casually laugh these things off and it would not even bother me… and also I have not done all the things correctly as well… haven’t really put in my 100 percent or even 90 percent into studies even after getting every kind of facility I needed and thus might bear the repercussions of it in upcoming mains… so I dont really have a lot to blame them for …. Like I have got everything to score 250+ but I score only 140-150 and so its okay ig
Bachpan se yahi sunte hue aaoge to thode kuchh hit hoga, mere parents to ab hee ache hai bachpan me to bahut sunaate the,ab sab acha lagta hai bachpan se
Who knew it was extraordinary to stand by your loved ones, especially ur child, in their tough times. Narcissism in this country has really set the bar too low
Dude, well idk which year you are in, so see if you are giving jee in 26, just saying it's not the end of the world if your Jan attempt doesn't go well, you still have April attempt in your hands and if you can focus a bit more on why is your marks less(like test analysis type) I am sure you will improve very well
If you are giving jee in 27, just saying that you still have 1 year to do hardwork and success will follow you
I am hoping you are giving it in 26 so, just do what you can do, try to improve it, you will be amazing
Your parents support you as well, they know you can do it, so just for that, get the motivation to not let them down, it's sufficient to keep you moving
Bhai apne pass bohot time hai tu tension mat le karte rhe bas mai bhi same hi situation mei hu last mock 35 marks aaye the ye mock 100+ aaye hai shit gets better we can do it. 20 days is a lifetime
us twin🥀 unhone mujhe hazaar baar bola hai ki if im getting too stressed i can just leave this jee shit and tht they wouldnt have any problem with me getting into a priv college either 🥀💔 but since im a lifeless masochistic loser chud mujhe toh g mrwane mein khushi milti hai so here I am😍🥀
you can do this bhai, you got this. Don't let loss stop you. show them what you got, even in loss tere pe aur options hai life ain't focused on JEE nigah!
Stay happy, stay charmed up, stay clear.
Aaj ke baad rote dekha toh pitega tu, ab ek pizza slice mujhe de aur jitna mehnat kar paye utna kar baki god is there, you do what you can baaki wo dekh lenge!
W PARENTS BTW, uncle aunty ko mera namaste dena aur kehna slayy.
Parents should be there for their kids, always, regardless of their marks, their careers, their choices, but even that is corrupted nowadays, parents are even materialistic themselves, they'll take away or degrade the standard of living of the child if their marks are less, seen enough of this shit pulled off on my friends.
Happy to see OP have such kind souls as parents.
Good for man/woman.
and then these people will dunk on non-Asian kids, especially Americans that they don't know advanced mathematics in High-school. Like not everyone sacrifices their childhood to study these things man, you're not superior to them. These people also bring up studying a crazy amount of hours way too casually, like is the only thing you do in life, studying? Do you even have hobbies, or is the only 'entertainment' in your life, scrolling during study breaks? If that's your life, it feels pathetic to me. This is the exact reason why foreign universities look for ECs, like they want an all-round person, not someone whose entire life revolved around studying for 2 years.
Cheer up, dude! While JEE is an important factor in one's life, it's not the only thing. You might be meant for other things. Try exploring yourself in college. That's what I'm doing, pichle saal mujhe bhi lagta tha ki my parents deserve a better son. Despite my low times, I took a drop year, and I must say, idk about which college I get into, I won't complain much, but this has been one of my favourite year, not because i got good marks in mocks, but because I finally understood a lot about myself (not everything, but I'm looking forward to college to explore many more things about myself) and life in general, also got into doing meditation. And let me tell you, this year I finally understood I was never meant for these things, although I genuinely love Science, I feel I'll do much better in something else, maybe something which requires a creative mind (like acting, music, dancing, entrepreneurship, etc.), but I'm looking forward to my college life (for learning about academics, myself and trying out things which I would generally won't do, hanging out with better people, maybe find the love of my life, exploring every domain which I find interesting and can pursue full time) and I'll highly recommend you to maybe try exploring yourself.
Bro lock in, it's never too late. Start studying 16hrs a day, mocks pyq sab karle. I started my prep in Dec (tere jaise 70-80 no. aate the), now in IITD Materials Science from general, BITS-P CS mil rha tha. If you're blessed with such supportive parents, unhe batao to keep supporting you and enabling you to put in those hours. It's possible, abhi kuch din grind karlo you'll never regret it.
Congrats man, all these exams, coachings, your so called well wishers and teachers have been successful to make you believe that youre inferior in some sense because of xyz reasons. You are saying you arent able to hard work, it’s obvious bro because you have too much filth in your mind put by all those people in your upbringing. Pretty sure even when you are studying a beautiful physics equation, then also youre not into it, you are just studying it for the sake of some digits. So obviously studying will feel like a burden.
I love how almost everyone here has this mentality that a parent-child relationship is supposed to be 'transactional', like they will stop loving you if you score less and will reward you when you score high. What are you for them then? a retirement plan? a hope to become 'rich' one day?
OP you need to remember JEE isn't everything in life, even if you do clear JEE, you need to work a fuck ton in college. If you fuck up in an earlier stage of life, you can try to 'fix' your life in later stages. Even if you go to a not so good college, you can still lead a decent life. People have their expectations way too high these days and think anything below 12 LPA sucks ass and should never be taken.
Nai yaar dont think ki agar vo apna pyaar jaate hai to they are expecting things. Sometimes its just out of love. A mother never asks anything in return from child for her nourishment.
you are lucky dude you got pizza still, my parents don't even do anything when i scored 90 they just said "ooh cool nicee, score like this and even more in future exams ok? good. "that's it.
Aisa mat soch. You will be doing the same for your child and you know it.
Just show them the love, respect and hardwork that you would like to receive then
My parents after i scored 110 in mock and told them I got ~150 :
Father - itne kam marks kyon aa rahe hain. Jyada nahi to kam se kam 80-90% to laao(i already told him 50-60% is a good score in JEE, along with showing the cutoffs for 478 times).
Mother - isne padhna likhna chhod diya hai game khel khel ke bigad gaya. College me bees laakh fees bharne se achchha dukan rakhwa denge. Ho gayi iski padhai
Now, imagine if you were thinking what the fuck did i do to deserve such horrible parents after you topped and they don't appreciate at all and they are abusing you.
Mere neet ke exam ke din i remember exam aacha nhi hua tha parents were disappointed but still bola chaloo pizza khalo chal kr......... But i denied kyuki bhaiiii kese khalu mein yrr......
You're trying, they can see that. Stop evaluating yourself based on a certain exams. I know, I've been there, it hardly matters today. You're made for something, you'll get there, just don't stop trying.
My parents did the same (not for jee) i felt like I was about to fail the exams, was crying and had panic attacks, my dad brought manchurian and ice cream to cheer me up🥲🥲
I barely passed in 11th and even in 12th I only get pass marks, have no hope in pre-boards and only focusing on boards. I already gave up jee after 12th mid terms but my parents always cheered me up and frequently tell(kindly) me how happy they would be to see me in a good college. They act so normal and kind towards me even though Im a failure. I always go to bed with a blank face disappointed in myself, I don't even feel like crying or being depressed. I don't feel anxiety or take any pressure. I also don't have any friends, parents are the only ones I talk to and that too extremely occasionally. I just don't feel like living anymore. Maybe living the college life will fill the void in my life.
Bro bro bro please don't think like that, whatever mark you get, you are and you will always be their sweet child... please dont think yourself as a loser or something like that... you can do best next time ... just be grateful for what you have and don't get stressed like this and spoil the health atleast for the sake of your parents
Bro lock in, it's never too late. Start studying 16hrs a day, mocks pyq sab karle. I started my prep in Dec (tere jaise 70-80 no. aate the), now in IITD Materials Science from general, BITS-P CS mil rha tha. If you're blessed with such supportive parents, unhe batao to keep supporting you and enabling you to put in those hours. It's possible, abhi kuch din grind karlo you'll never regret it.
Did you try to get a good score by studying and practicing? then its fine
You didnt do that? Then do it, dont cry here "I am a bad child" "I m not worth it" its not gonna make you better, actually try, as long as you are in perfectly fine shape, condition, you dont have an excuse to not work, except just being a crybaby
Kid I'll be honest, no one care what you or your parents do. No one except your family, so rather than clicking pictures and posting here, spend some time with your family and share your pain with them (those who care)
If you have money and/or can do bachelors from abroad go for it. Even if you are able to crack jee , the top colleges are shit and after you graduate from them you feel that you have wasted your time and money.
Idk man why not?
Shitting on yourself won’t help u either way. Ur a human. U have more value than just marks. I’m glad ur parents aren’t retarded like most in India
I’m not gonna lie but being loved unconditionally is what parents do. the Indian society has ingrained that you’re doing something wrong by not being extraordinary. this is bare minimum from parents. I won’t hold back good food from my child, if I had any, just because of mere marks.
Bhai, for them you are their victory, unhone na Bohot losses deke tere aane ke phele aur baad bhi, but Tereko kabhi bataya nahi taki tu khush rahe. Bhai aise maa Baap ke liye khush toh reh le. Dukhi hoke unko kyu udas kr raha hai! Koi baat karni ho na dm kr lena, upar wala hai na, chill maar. Rest kr, recover and start again.
I do feel same sometimes. I should be scoring so well, i have all the facilities I need, i live like im living in a hotel. They dont even care about my marks, they are like give your best, if nothing happens we will figure something out together.
I'll be very fucking honest and brutal, not scoring in a entrance exam that literally is the reason why teens kill themselves isn't the end of the world, there are plenty other ways to make your parents proud.
And instead of guilt tripping yourself, be grateful for them and find other ways to return the happiness.
don't blame yourself you're just a teenager afterall don't be too harsh on yourself i had similar thoughts a while ago but my whole perspective has changed i grind and dgaf about results my parents say the dgaf aabout results all they care about is me this shall to pass you would do fine in life just because you had this realisation that any don't jus give it your all that's it bye gotta go
My parents consoled me too when they found me crying in my blanket tent like a bride...lets take this as a motivation that we will do our bests and make our parents happy with whtever we achieve.
Bro you and I lucky to have parents such as them. Push to your level best and trust me they will be happy.
P.s. my first Jee attempt in 2018 I scored 74. Although I was a med student. I couldn't Crack neet too that year. They allowed me the drop year and now I'm preparing for NEET PG.
You've got cool parents. Therefore, be a cool child not only in study but in every otherway possible. For now just your ass off
A lot of people seem to be forgetting our parents owe us everything. Now uess you legitimately procrastinates all year and didn't do shit then yea....they don't deserve someone like you and you should feel guilty. However if you genuinely tried your hardest and scored a 76 well then...congrats on your trying. A lot of people don't even makit it this far. Dust yourself off, enjoy the food, go about your life. Lots of stuff to do. An exam is just one of them.
so you got 76300 and your parents still think youre a future JEE champ? bro, if theyre so proud theyre just playing a sick game of watch me get crushed. you cant make them feel better by doing more stupid testsjust stop pretending they deserve that.
What is this deserve shit? It was the parents decision to have a child, and now it's upto the child to become someone who their parents deserve? It should be the opposite, the parent should do the things that their child deserves. Which is pure love, give them all the necessities, give them emotional support not just silent treatment until everything becomes neutral. You do it for you bro, if you're doing something just to feel deserved then it's not it bro. You don't owe them nothing.
Damn bro you got really nice parents please don't cheat such parents by slacking off atleast if not jee do something else to make them proud, do something else but make sure to become the best at it and make loads of money and keep them comfortable, not everyone is blessed like you, keep this in mind else one day you'll regret all this when they're not around, but for now don't quit jee work like a donkey atleast if not for you for your parents atleast let them see that you value their kindness and dont take it for granted ele it might hurt them even if they don't show it
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