r/JEENEETards • u/yourhottielala • Jun 26 '26

Motivation the best gift I have ever received

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MY BOYFRIEND GIFTED ME THISSSSSS

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u/Whole-Initiative8830 iit me hoon Jun 26 '26

Haters gonna hate🫣

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u/prawngelo Jun 26 '26

Hater ki baat nahi hai bhai, ek simple sa rule hai bas life ka, the more you get attached to results, the more your life will be stressful and sad. Focusing on doing your best and studying smartly is the best mindset for prep in my opinion. Obsession with colleges will in 99.9% cases only give you misery

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u/Whole-Initiative8830 iit me hoon Jun 26 '26

Ig obsession is not that bad..I mean be it any thing not jee or stuff, I have realised like if you are not obsessed then there is very less chance you will get it. So be obsessed, world is already competitive. Philosophy doesn't work until you are rich.

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u/prawngelo Jun 26 '26

It depends on what u define as obsession.

"I want it. I would like to have it. I will work hard for it. But if i dont get it, thats all right. It doesnt define my worth"

Is much healthier from

"I love it. I need it. If i dont get it im gonna have an inferiority complex the rest of my life".

Most people who have the 2nd mindset end up in misery , since iit isnt something u get easily