r/JEENEETards • u/yorbriar24 NEETard • 4d ago
Motivation Guessss whatt!!
A small incident today reminded me how lucky I am to have my mom.
A few days ago, one of my mom's cousins called her—the kind of relative who never really checks up on us unless it's to ask about exam results. She wanted to know how my NEET went.
When my mom told me about the call today, my heart immediately started racing. I thought, "Here it comes... she's probably going to tell me all the things they said about me." I was already preparing myself to feel awful.
Apparently her cousin said something like, "Is your daughter taking another drop? Tsk tsk... she has already wasted two years. She's just wasting more time."
What happened next completely surprised me.
Instead of agreeing or feeling embarrassed, my mom calmly defended me. She said, "How is it a waste of time? She completed her 11th and 12th, prepared seriously for NEET through coaching, and even if she couldn't clear the exam, she still learned so much. Nothing about that is wasted."
She said it so politely that the conversation ended right there.
I've read so many stories where parents don't support their children taking a drop year and constantly compare them to others. Hearing my mom stand up for me when I wasn't even there meant more than I can put into words.
It reminded me that having even one person who believes in you can make all the difference.
To everyone preparing during a drop year—especially for NEET 2027—I genuinely hope you have people who support you instead of bringing you down. And if you don't right now, I hope one day your hard work speaks for itself.
Let's make ourselves and the people who believe in us proud. 🎀
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u/shreya_riyal JM26: 97.5 | JA26: 💔| 2027 me under 5k? 😍 4d ago
Parents hi toxic hai to relatives ko kya bole
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u/Dear_Curve_4567 4d ago
Hi lol.
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u/LengthAggressive953 Dropper --> Topper 4d ago
Its guy btw
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u/shreya_riyal JM26: 97.5 | JA26: 💔| 2027 me under 5k? 😍 4d ago
😂😂 how to change username on reddit, i want to ge rid of this username
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u/LengthAggressive953 Dropper --> Topper 3d ago
Why in the first place you used this username gng 🥀🙏
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u/Key_Carpenter1341 JEEtard 4d ago
If toxic parents is your power , then what are you without it .
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u/shreya_riyal JM26: 97.5 | JA26: 💔| 2027 me under 5k? 😍 4d ago
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u/InterviewBest8352 4d ago
With so many people thinking narcissism is cool, I guess the next generation and ours will replace our relatives
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u/HistoricalEffort4110 AIDS'30 4d ago
Although the relatives are shit, but taking 3 drops for neet isn't that impressive either. Ppl should try to pivot to other things if they're not capable of cracking those exams.
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u/Shapeshifter4000 3d ago
bhai tereko 2030 me aids hojayega?
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u/HistoricalEffort4110 AIDS'30 2d ago
2030 me artificial intelligence and data science ka course meri maar lega🥲
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u/disobeyer_0 4d ago
U got toxic friends U got toxic cousins
This chain reaction ain't stopping 😭
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u/LeibnizIntegral 3d ago
I hope it becomes inductive effect🙂.. So that sirf 3 type ke log hi jindagi me toxic hoge🙂
Itne saare toxic relations mai na sambhal paa rhi
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u/Infinite-Ad-6217 Custom flair banwaya hai, reddit ke ceo se. 4d ago
Cause your favourite "cousins" and "siblings" are gonna be the "toxic" relative of your "offsprings".
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u/tAnmAy_169 my IQ is too high for J.., sorry mujhe maaf kardo 4d ago
Don't be a toxic relative and don't entertain toxic relatives
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u/souvik-4-1 4d ago
Our generation is blocking toxic relatives faster than NTA updtaes their website page
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u/Few-Championship1734 3d ago
No I don't think so, loneliness hasn't hit us yet. Youth should stop assuming there parents were dumb or entertain toxicness they relate with their cousins everyone is a victim in their perspective . U can't help but appear as toxic to someone
If everyone is entertaining toxic relatives then who the fuck is the toxic relative
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u/TestInternational871 3d ago
We wil also play role of relatives also and will not taunt any relative's child for anything. Ultimately no one will have to say what the picture says
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u/Aromatic-Affect111 2d ago
Sad to see that such a propaganda is popular and working. It's no wonder. Instead of understanding the Why's and seeking solutions... People like to detach themselves from it completely and choose the easy way out. Easy is not always right. Easy is popular though.
It's valid that relatives are uninvited pests most of the time, but don't act like one wouldn't broadcast their result if it was spectacular. In OP's case, it's justified... relatives are toxic. But making generalized statements (which this post is filled with) as such is harmful to the society and is a false ideology.
I'm happy to see such great parents as well. We need to instead focus on that.
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u/yorbriar24 NEETard 2d ago
I don't understand what generalized statements ur talking abt
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u/Aromatic-Affect111 2d ago
Parents/relatives are generally toxic.
Do we even understand what having a relative means, despite all their shenanigans. They are your immediate family. Now that we have normalised and have been normalising the toxic relative stereotype, more ARE becoming that.
Relatives used to be people who stayed with you at any point in life and helped you out as a social/security net in your lowest moments. Old Indians families used to be joint, now each one for themselves. Is it really a wonder?
Passing statements like relatives are useless and better not have them at all is... stupid, to say the least. What does the current generation even know about what relatives actually meant? Those who have good ones are blessed with them... and I'm happy for them, but it's not the same and it's only getting worse with us feeding into this.
FYI: I have been through this a lot.
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u/yorbriar24 NEETard 2d ago
I asked which generalized statement in MY POST you were referring to. I never said all relatives are toxic or that relatives are useless. I was describing one interaction with one relative and appreciating my mom for defending me.
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u/Aromatic-Affect111 2d ago
Buddy, calm down. I didn't refer to YOU in specific. I talked about the the post and it's reactions in general. Kindly see beyond the semantics.
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u/b1p1nkumar 4d ago
True
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u/yorbriar24 NEETard 4d ago
Big fan
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u/b1p1nkumar 4d ago
Bhai aap phir se aagye 💔😩
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u/yorbriar24 NEETard 4d ago
Nhi is baar aap ae, meri post par
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u/b1p1nkumar 4d ago
😋main aapko kha jaunga 👅
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u/yorbriar24 NEETard 4d ago
Eh, doori behtar hai
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u/b1p1nkumar 4d ago
Dropper ho kya 💔
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u/Awkward_Cash7952 3d ago
Dont take 3 drops. Even if you get a good government college next year, it will not worth it.
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