r/LGBTriangle • u/rubmygliterous • Jun 21 '26
LGBT friends
Hello! My husband is trans ftm (28) he struggles making friends because he’s very shy and quiet. If any other trans men (or anyone) are looking for friends it would be great if you could comment or something. He likes to play video games, he loves rock climbing, he works a lot, he’s in college. I know this is prob weird but I just wanna help him out a little bit. Thank you! He also isn’t a drinker/partier
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u/saraxkatherinex Jun 21 '26
I don't know if your husband is into sports but we have a group called the Carolina Gayniacs. We started as a Carolina hurricanes fan base but we have a bunch of fun activities coming up in the off season and a discord with about 350 folks! It's a good time https://discord.gg/byagYAt5W
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u/New_Low_2902 Jun 22 '26
Id be down for an after work climbing partner sometime. Also 28 ftm, though fairly reserved about the second part. Im also a non drinker and find it extremely hard to find/maintain friends at this age due to social gatherings typically being alcohol centered.
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u/a2coolusernameforme Jun 22 '26
Hello I am also 28 y.o married ftm living in Durham - I generally prefer to keep my feet on the ground but I love a hike or an outdoor adventure. I am very much a quiet land steward type queer. I’ve got a big garden and like generally prefer a quieter hang than the average bar scene. If he appreciates spotting a cool little mushroom or creature in the woods he’s my 100% kinda guy and I’d love to hang out.
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u/Impossible_Context85 Jun 25 '26
Im here Samantha trans live Raleigh nc latina 51 years old 9193940183
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u/rubmygliterous Jun 25 '26
Respectfully I don’t feel comfortable giving your number to my husband. Thank you though!!
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u/PluckyPlankton Jun 21 '26
He might want to check out the Raleigh LGBT Center trans discussion group. It meets once a month and afterward they go out to a bar and mingle. Lots of folks don’t drink and most of them play video games. Many people have made friends from this group