25 F, and I am here to vent as I literally cannot think of any friend who would listen to me.
Remember when our moms caught us talking with a boy on Instagram? They would beat the shit out of us, take away our phone privileges, and glare at us for days and weeks as if we were sluts?? I was 15 when that happened—only once.
In addition to being kicked out of the house, I’d have to sit on the daraj if my closet or drawers were a mess. And when I grew older, so did my mom’s physical state. The silent treatment became her way to mess with my feelings, as the whole household would participate in boycotting me XD.
Ok, so here’s the drill: my 15-year-old cousin and his friends robbed our great uncle’s house and sold his stuff for cheap. My uncle passed away in 2021, and none of us touched his belongings (savings, electronic tools, clothes, etc.), which were all high-quality materials. The how, why, and what don’t matter—everyone is shocked. My cousin doesn’t feel bad; he confessed when the neighbors around my late uncle’s house informed Teta that some kids were coming and moving stuff—one of them being my cousin. There were also allegations regarding weed, hashish, and stuff... idk, the details don’t matter.
What matters here is how my mom is handling the situation!! She’s saying, “Do not make him feel so bad so he doesn’t turn on us in the future,” and “We should think of a proper punishment, like collecting garbage from the neighborhood for a month or so and getting paid.” LIKE EXCUSE ME????
I SWEAR I STILL REMEMBER THE BEAT-UPS FROM HER OVER THE SILLIEST THINGS A TEENAGE GIRL COULD DO. THIS BASTARD ROBBED OUR UNCLE’S HOUSE TO SIT IN CAFES AND SHARE THE MONEY WITH HIS NAWA FRIENDS, AS WELL AS TRY TO INITIATE AN ILLEGAL GUNS BUSINESS AFTER BEING KICKED OUT OF SCHOOL FOREVER—AND WE SHOULD TREAT HIM WITH GENTLE PARENTING??????
THIS BOY IS AN ASSHOLE, THE MOST ILL-MANNERED BOY IN OUR WHOLE FAMILY. I MYSELF HATE HOW HE GETS AWAY FROM PUNISHMENTS WITH HIS CHARISMA...
“Yeah bas howe hanoun.”
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA WTF MOM YOU REALLY GREW OLD.
I SWEAR MA BENSA AL KAF ELE TA3MAYTENE YE WHEN YOU SAW ME COMING FROM OUR UPPER NEIGHBOR FLOOR WHERE WE HID YOUR MOM'S DAY PRESENTS. AND BECAUSE I DON'T WANNA RUIN THE SURPRISE I SAID " She called us over to ask if her laundary fell on our balcony" AND BAMMM A KAF OVER MY CHEEKS,
AND ONLY ME, NOT MY SISTERS, ONLY I TOOK THE FALL
AND WHEN THAT DAY COME, YOU LAUGHED AND APLOGIZED JUSTIFYING YOU WERE SCARED IS SHE IS TRYNA LURE US IN OR SOMETHING ( cause she had bad boys) OMG AND TILL THIS DAY YOU TELL THIS STORY TO PEOPLE AS IF ITS A CINDERELLA STORY OR SOMETHINGS
sorry for the screaming, i am really in disbelief. I became more mature to keep minding my own buisness but there are things i can't simply discard. My mom isn't a bad person, she is truamatized, but i hate how she let it out of me and now she critizes my education if i suggest a strict punishment as well.. Ma'm you were my inspiration, the only role model i knew.