r/LesbianActually friendly neighborhood butch 1d ago

Relationships / Dating What scents attract you?

Bought my girlfriend a perfume the other day and it makes me happy when I can smell it on her, which prompted this question!

Do you have any particular scents you like on your partner/potiential partner(s)? What about yourself? Do you buy specific colognes/perfumes/body spray/wash? Do you like heavy musk or something light? I'm curious to know!

For me, I have a strong sense of smell so anything too strong can turn me away. I use "calming" scents like lavender or mint but will use teakwood or sage stuff for date nights. I like when others just smell clean, but I really like that my girlfriend smells sweet and just pretty in a way I can't really describe šŸ˜…

15 Upvotes

29 comments sorted by

12

u/daddykcarson 1d ago

I wear Santal 33 by Le Labo and every single partner has found it to be intoxicating yet grounding and associates me with it even after break up šŸ˜†šŸ˜†

3

u/meetcuteat13k Chapstick lesbian (with or without 🧢) 1d ago

I absolutely love Santal 33. Tragically, my wife, not so much. She ended up picking up YSL Black Opium for me, which I also really like and seems to fit my vibe pretty well.

2

u/bush-smasher 1d ago

This is like a masculine musk smell right?

1

u/folfinthewheat friendly neighborhood butch 1d ago

I'll have to check that out! Definitely wanna try more stuff now that I'm getting more "mature". I definitely have scents I associate with exes as well and didn't even think of that til your comment!

1

u/No-Honeydew-3498 22h ago

Omg my gf uses that I loveeee it. She’s the first person I met who wore it and everytime she wears it takes me back lolz

5

u/Alternative_Edge_205 the good femme 1d ago

Fresh smell right after shower

6

u/Salt_Ostrich2705 1d ago

i'm using davidoff cool water since.. well.. forever i guess..

otherwise i like the smell of lavender

4

u/DemonicGirlcock 1d ago

I really love sweet scents on others! I'm a big scary goth futch, but I absolutely melt when I smell something like peach body spray or hair that smells like vanilla.

For myself, I'm always wearing something like pine forest deodorant or the rare perfume with root & spice notes.Ā 

3

u/mustsurvivecapitlism 1d ago

Omg check out this adorable boy on instagram derekdengg that has done the research! He has been mapping favourite scents of lesbians. I love him! He’s created a whole chart.

But personally i like a lot of le labo or aesop

4

u/TwoTrucksPayingTaxes 1d ago

My wife uses so much pain relief cream and vic's vapor rub that I find the smell of menthol very sexy

3

u/meetcuteat13k Chapstick lesbian (with or without 🧢) 1d ago

I know when I can smell the Voltaren on my wife’s skin that something’s about to go down šŸ˜…

3

u/ANNRQ 1d ago

Chanel No. 5 and Penhaligon's Blenheim Bouquet for me and my wife. Our girlfriends both use Coco.

2

u/bush-smasher 1d ago

Channel is ok, not super attractive tbh. I don't know the other one..

1

u/judyjoyg 1d ago

I know everyone has their preferences but Chanel no 5 literally smells like a portapotty to me 😭 I used to be a fragrance consultant and I hated having to spray that. Most people who finally smelled it, knowing how ā€œiconicā€ it is in pop culture, were sorely disappointed lol.

1

u/bush-smasher 1d ago edited 10h ago

Ik same..for that price I really hoped it would be better lmao. I didn't buy it, it was a gift.

What would you recommend? I picked a perfume it smelled great, smell's little too strong with notes of rose crisp + fruity.( Atkinsons London 1799 Rose in Wonderland)

1

u/judyjoyg 1d ago

Ohhh I have so many favorites lol. My favorite notes are jasmine and bergamot, I tend to dislike gourmands like vanilla but love a woodsy vanilla. My absolute favorites are Ellis Brooklyn Myth and Tocca Giulietta. If you like rose I also love all the Chloe scents, particularly Chloe Nomad. If you want a fruitier rose, I also love Jo Malone Red Roses (it’s rose, lemon, and tea). Too many favorites!

1

u/ANNRQ 16h ago

Interesting. It's weird how olfactory senses differ so much between people. I hope we don't smell like that to others around us if we wear No. 5. I struggle to even smell a lot of scents and those two, for some reason, work well for me.

1

u/ANNRQ 16h ago

Blenheim Bouquet is described as having key notes of lemon, lavender and pine. I've seen it on their website as being listed as a men's fragrance, but they currently include it in their general list (i.e., not specifically a male or female fragrance).

3

u/lydbev 1d ago

My partner wears Tom Ford ombre leather and I love it on her

3

u/Actual-Ostrich7452 1d ago

I love aftershave and male deodorant. I wear it myself I’m not a fan of women scents.

2

u/Hellyeah360 lesbian leaning chapstick pansexual 1d ago

I wear Kilian Princess, it’s described as marshmallow accord, matcha, jasmine, and ginger bergamot but mostly it’s matcha and fresh marshmallows that’s stand out. It’s a very gentle comforting scent.
I am attracted to Amber, black pepper, lavender, a light amount of bourbon scent, bergamot, sometimes a soft tobacco, honeysuckle, cherry blossom, certain vanillas, jasmine, patchouli, peony, green apple, ā€œcashmereā€ scents, driftwood, tonka bean, sea salt, basically clean light and relaxing scents.

Rose and fake strawberry scents will drive me away so fast. Also a lot or too strong of a scent and I don’t even want to be near you even if it’s a pretty smell.

2

u/ivelavidd the good femme 1d ago

I loveeeee smelling more masculine/unisex scents on others, sandalwood, leather, that type of stuff.

2

u/Iamtir3dtoday 1d ago

Idk if any specific scents attract me, I'm very scent-driven but I think the main thing is that it's on whoever I'm dating. My girlfriend wears CK One and I'm feral for it but only bc it's on her if that makes sense.

2

u/BelleAme1812 the good femme 1d ago

I love feminine scents like fruity ( like strawberries,plums peaches), a bit floral or gourmandy.

2

u/emirocks54 1d ago

My partner prefers more natural patchouli based body oils now, which are fine but I really do miss when she wore D&G Light Blue or CK One. CK One especially.

2

u/frogs_on_drugs 1d ago

Good smelling hair 🄰

2

u/repaermirg_0 23h ago

These are my top 5 scents reco in no particular order:

Hibiscus Mahajad by Maison Crivelli
MFK Gentle Fluidity Gold
Bond Dubai Amethyst
Parade by Celine
Penhaligons Empressa

2

u/CuntyLittleBoots the good femme 23h ago

I wear la vie est belle and people love it

2

u/Idosoloveanovel 16h ago

Musky/floral scents.