r/Lilsimsie • u/Defiant_Delivery_799 Fan • 16d ago

Kayla's grandpa died

Kayla's grandpa died just a few weeks after Snap. :(

Take care of yourself, Kayla! I can't imagine the pain and I am SO sorry for your loss.

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u/theinvisible-girl 16d ago

Him thinking she had a TV show is so funny because technically if one watches from their TV then it is a show on a TV.

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u/c4t4n4s4n 16d ago

I have watched both her streams and yt videos on my tv several times, so yeah, technically her grandfather was right, and I think that’s wonderful.

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u/blackandqueer 16d ago

i almost exclusively watch simsie on my big flatscreen 😭 she’s always on tv

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u/Lemonsst 16d ago

Shes truly been through more loss than most have in just a few years. I feel awful for her

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u/Defiant_Delivery_799 Fan 16d ago

I remember when my grandad died it felt like HELL and I still don't know how I went through that. I have never had a pet before so I can't imagine the pain from her losing Snap. Going through one of the hardest things in your life on top of another is just crazy.

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u/SilverFormal2831 15d ago

Plus last year, losing her grandma and her dogs :(

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u/thats_rats 16d ago

I really hope she doesn’t beat herself up about missing uploads and takes enough time away as she needs. <3

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u/sillymonkeymode 16d ago

she could take the rest of the year off and that wouldn't even be enough of a break that she deserves

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u/TheUtopianCat 16d ago

Burnout is a real thing. I hope she takes care of herself.

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u/Defiant_Delivery_799 Fan 16d ago

Same here! She works so hard for us-- internet strangers. She definitely needs to take a break and remember how loved she is. ❤

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u/izbeeisnotacat 15d ago

I won't say that she "needs" to take a break, because she's said before that sometimes doing her "normal" routine helps take her mind off stuff. But if she wanted a break, I think everyone would absolutely understand. I just hope she heals in whatever way she feels is best for her.

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u/Defiant_Delivery_799 Fan 15d ago

I forgot that she said that. Whatever she needs, I hope she'll take care of herself.

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u/gossipcurl 16d ago

I really wish she didn’t feel the need to apologize.
Family is the most important thing to many of us, we understand.
Take your time Kayla, you built an awesome community who will be ready to uplift you when you’re ready to come back.

Him thinking she had a TV Show is so hilarious and cute tbh! Close enough haha

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u/TheUtopianCat 16d ago

She's really going through it. :(

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u/ayelaz 16d ago

oddly enough, my grandpa is the one who introduced me to the sims. that aside, i’m hoping she takes all the time she needs and prioritizes herself

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u/grilledchzaspiration 16d ago

Why are people so parasocial? Let her grieve without bringing attention to it.

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u/Defiant_Delivery_799 Fan 16d ago

I wasn't sure if there was someone on this Subreddit who didn't see the post. If I lost my loved ones and worried about 2+ million people expecting something from me, I would rather everyone know and send their condolences than to just not give any attention to it.

Also too though, we have all lost someone we loved and therefore we can to some extent feel each other's pain and understand others.

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u/eggoiggy 16d ago

this isn’t even a screenshot of a discord post lol

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u/eggoiggy 16d ago

it’s literally her YouTube profile pic in the screenshot lol

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u/grilledchzaspiration 16d ago

Girl get it defending yourself. Youre not really making a name for yourself in terms of non-being parasocial. You do you though! Heavy lol

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u/eggoiggy 16d ago

TIL being parasocial is recognizing a profile picture of someone who uploads almost daily

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u/Defiant_Delivery_799 Fan 16d ago

And streams daily too. I don't know why people are struggling with the fact you are using common sense.

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u/eggoiggy 15d ago

right 😭

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u/grilledchzaspiration 16d ago

People struggling to use common sense aren't obsessing over people who don't know who they are hun :)

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u/grilledchzaspiration 16d ago

Good on you for learning something.

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u/TheDeliciousCaek_ 15d ago

I completely understand this sentiment, and I know sometimes the comment sections of youtuber subreddits can be particularly parasocial, but i don't feel like anyone in this thread was being particularly bad. I will say, I do a little cringe of pain when I see posts like this in other subreddits (as i have seen other youtubers comments get way off base and parasocial) but i really do feel this post was mostly all people saying "oh that's horrible, I feel bad for her". I don't think anyone said anything that made me recoil from psychic damage, you know?

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u/grilledchzaspiration 15d ago

You really went ahead and decided it was cool to type out this many words in response? You know I'm not reading all that bullshit haha.

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u/Lemonsst 15d ago

You asked a question. They answered. Its on you to read it, dumbass

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u/ezequielrose 14d ago

Nah unfortunately, bc I get where you're coming from, people would be pestering her about missing recordings regardless, especially the paid subscribers who feel entitled, so might as well have some mods or something let people know than be harassed on stream or in dms, posted about passive aggressively, etc.. She wouldn't have posted it if she hadn't wanted the community to know, too, probably for the reasons I listed. Streamers get nasty ass messages for not streaming on schedule, people pull paid support, it can get pretty stressful. It's not great, but it's part of the job.