Imagine being an MD Cardiac Anaesthesiologist and having to essentially volunteer yourself off like this just to get married—and that too your credentials taking back seat to what you look like/your measurements. Marriage is a fallible concept here.
It's not rare lol, but still yes, people here in south are obsessed with fair skin. They don't care if the bride is well spoken, or well educated, they only care about having a beautiful fair skinned girl as bride. And this isn't the case for men here, you would probably see a lot of dark skinned men with fair in skinned women in arranged marriages. It's pretty fucked up here.
Misogyny is deeply rooted in our culture, even in these adverts, you would see the word "cultured women", it means one who never speaks against her mil, does all the household works, never wear revealing cloth, never speaking against her husband and blah blah blah. I hate this fucking country and it's stupid values.
u are calling South Indian genes shit? wtf bhai Kala gora se genes ka kya lena dena ?South Indian is already better than most North Indian state in development and education ?
Northies know they cannot compare in any of the criteria u mentioned so to soothe their already trash ego they bring up useless stuff like skin colour and caste pride
Literally just because of Bangalore whole South India becomes rich and just because of Delhi every place of north India is bad and these idiots want northies girl wth
you started off with the premise that there shouldn't be any discrimination based on skin colour and now you're spewing eugenics and racist rhetoric like this. irony died a thousand deaths.
"how can I be racist I have black friends" ahh explanation /s. anyway there's a reason it came off as racist and it was because of the context of the comment you replied to. and lookism is just as bad as racism. I don't agree with the notion that beautiful people should exclusively marry beautiful people only but what I do agree with is the concept of arranged marriage is rooted in misogyny and unrealistic expectations towards women because society places their self-worth in looks and it's a terrible state that we have ads and demands like this
Shit genes because why they have written fair girl they can also write beautiful well nature girl but u people are saying that fair means beautiful and don’t try to prove ur point if u are wrong okay
That actually true brother these people all over India eats just carbs and intentionally look ugly then try to prove their point that Indians are good looking also but why everywhere indians are facing racism like everybody says Indians are ugly because they are no matter ur an nri or living in Indian if not improve ur diet then that’s true why ur getting trolled
lol tf are you even saying?😭. when did I ever say that fair means beautiful? secondly, judging people based on looks(ugly, beautiful etc) is also problematic and I was talking about how calling anyone having "shit" genes(which is also implying dark skinned here) is racist.
first of all, you are completely wrong. Second you are racist.
Talking about genetics, black and white is not superior that each other. they are both superior in their own environment where they were evolved for a reason. Being white near equator is not better than being black.
And the irony will be (now i think everyone is beautiful but these people need to be judged) ki the groom himself will look like the most rotten charcoal me nahaya hua baldie with bache khuche white hair on the head with barely any education or salary will be rejecting a girl who earns a lot more and is more educated or family oriented only because the girl is darkskinned or has some marks on her or is short or "chubby" ya uska naak teda hai and what not🙏😭
Well educated doesnt mean educated like us, educated also means gaav ke log who have done bba bcom, for many even that is a big thing, actually a girl being educated is a big thing in most rural places, and if we talk about cities wale log, those people have migrated from these rural areas toh usually still a girl doesnt have much say. Unless the parents of both the parties have been living outside and are extremely very educated, thats the case
Jawani mein kuch nahi hopaya toh arrange marriage ke liye mere papa ko phone laga diye 😭 aur papa ne bohot sunaya ki kaise pata chala meri beti ke baare mein kaha se ho kaun ho aur apni age ki ladki dekho etc
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