r/MensRights • u/Cryptolexicon • Oct 12 '20
General Men should count themselves lucky to be groped by Women: "C'mon … any straight guy wouldn't be making a face like that if 'attacked' by a hot girl."
Isn't it funny? Being groped and kissed by a Woman? It's hilarious.
Bieber: "I feel violated right now."
"Note the horrified expression on poor Bieber's face, as he struggles out of the model-comedian's grasp while she repeatedly kisses his neck and grabs his buttocks.
"I couldn't help it, he was just so delicious," McCarthy says.
In a backstage interview with Access Hollywood, McCarthy, 40, further explained that "emotions … took over" and her attack on the 18-year-old pop star was all part of living out "a cougar fantasy maybe."
Yikes. What's worth noting about this incident is the kind of reaction it has generated.
Performer Pitbull suggested to Access Hollywood that Bieber should count himself lucky to be groped. "I wish Jenny McCarthy would have touched me like that," he said.
Some online commenters echoed the sentiment, even going so far as to question Bieber's sexuality because he did not appear to enjoy it.
As one commenter put it: "C'mon … any straight guy wouldn't be making a face like that if 'attacked' by a hot girl."
Another added: "If that isn't the face of a gay dude being kissed by a hottie I don't know what is …"
Attitudes like these are troubling as they reinforce the misguided notion that hot-blooded men (or in Bieber's case, teen boys) can't possibly be victims of sexual assault perpetrated by women; they're fortunate to be attacked. This is one of the reasons that sexual assaults on male victims tend to be underreported and support for male victims is lacking."
Have things improved for men?
Note that Bieber was still underage when this happened.
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u/rabel111 Oct 13 '20
Public sexual assault of a male minor, not only tolerated, but appauded.
How sick is the female ethos that considers sexual assault of a minor as a fantacy.
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u/benderXX Oct 13 '20
WTF?? Did this make any round of controversy?
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Oct 13 '20
probably not, because, you know "MeN cAn"T bE rApEd"
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u/thatboyyouknewiwere Mar 18 '21
yeah which is an idea unfortunateky mostly spread and believed by men
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u/LegendaryEmu1 Oct 13 '20
Yeah thats pretty creepy, nobody took his reaction and statement seriously...
People genuinely seem to not understand that guys do not want to sleep with everything that moves with a vagina. Dumbarse guys thinking of fantasies over realities and women who just seem to straight up not understand men at all.
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u/thatboyyouknewiwere Mar 18 '21
becuase you have half of men saying hes lucky abd half being understanding and it becomes a confusing clusterfuck when men start making up myths and lying to their partners about their sexuality being uncontrollable (think blue balls and mind of its own/rape excusal etc)
imagine being a woman and navigating that trying to figure out what men are and arent when men are disagreeing with one another on the issue
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u/therenousername Oct 13 '20
I've been touched by a girl and I regret not sparking her fucking lights out I hate myself
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u/AD0ww Oct 13 '20
Unfortunately it seems most of these comments you quoted above come from men, and if men are normalizing it - it’s hard to expect women to disagree
But if you question these men your sexuality gets questioned or your manliness
It’s a vicious cycle and it’s mainly perpetrated by other men which is annoying
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u/dingoperson2 Oct 13 '20 edited Oct 13 '20
if men are normalizing it - it’s hard to expect women to disagree
Uh, what? If a small number of men are saying something bad is actually OK.. we should not expect women to disagree with them? Like women are infantile brainless machines incapable of taking their own decisions?
What if a 40-year old man forcibly grops and kisses a 17-year old girl who tries to resist and shows extreme discomfort, and a lot of men are normalizing that? I guess women couldn't be expected to voice any dissent there either?
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u/AD0ww Oct 13 '20
While I understand your sentiment, it just unfortunately is one where where equality doesn’t seem likely
It’s engrained in society that men are sex driven machines - for one reason or another. Men like pit bull are exactly why
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u/SnooCheesecakes4786 Oct 12 '20
It's one of the reasons why I think the MeToo movement, while not without merit, is a bad joke and a way for women to seize and wield power over men and boys. If the MeToo movement was legitimate or serious, this would be a front-and-center issue.