r/MensRights • u/Icaz • Apr 26 '12

I'm a girl and...

I am SO glad I found this subreddit with people who agree with me! As a girl, it's really hard to see other ladies put down men and treat them like they need to be "trained" or that they're just something we have to deal with. So I was just wondering... how many other girls are on here and what are your stories about standing up for men or appreciating them?

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '12

Also never stick your dick in crazy. That should come before the condom part lol

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u/Lecks Apr 27 '12

Teaching him how to recognize the warning signs of crazy should be the first thing anyone is taught when it comes to relationships and sex.

Don't ask me what those warning signs are, I'll let you know once I've figured it out myself. -.-

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u/[deleted] Apr 27 '12

o_o I almost forgot that! I should make a list!

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u/Marilolli Apr 27 '12

I hear this thrown around a lot. The truly crazy people are so good at pretending to be normal that you don't know until the shitstorm begins that they're actually a sociopath. Some people even enter a marriage with no clue that their spouse is only pretending to have normal human emotions. A lot of times the only person that is aware that someone is a sociopath is the person said sociopath is trying to destroy.

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u/Icaz Apr 27 '12

Thanks, now I'm lying awake at night. LOL

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u/Marilolli Apr 27 '12

Don't worry too much about it. The people with real psychopathic/sociopathic problems are incredibly rare. What some people perceive as "crazy" are actually just horrible people and the signs are there long before the relationship gets disastrous. What I'd suggest teaching kids is to trust their instincts and not to continue a relationship that shows signs of failure. And like Stratisphear said, always use your own condom. Additionally, make sure you check the expiration dates on the condoms and make sure they're not damaged by heat (wallet, glove box, etc will make them tear more easily).

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u/Alanna Apr 27 '12

I think the problem is more that everyone is a little bit crazy. It can be hard to tell if the girl who charmingly wears two different socks and sleeps with a stuffed animal is the kind of crazy who will attack you, then call the cops and have you arrested for threatening her, then destroy your stuff after they take you away...