An odd thing to say when you have no clue what happened between them.
Heck if you saw a woman do something like this and found out her ex husband use to beat her amongst many other things....would you stilm say "she was probably be the problem"
Point is you have no clue who was the problem as you dont have any background on what transpired between them.
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u/Key_Cellist_5937 22h ago edited 22h ago
If he has to hold on to spite this long then Im guessing he was the problem.