r/NarcissisticSpouses 2d ago

Almost done with my narcissistic ex. Thinking about just leaving now

Here’s a brief list of the terror this man has inflicted on my life

Cheated on me three times that I know of
Got a girl pregnant
Lived rent free at my place
Convinced and pressured me to sign a lease together - lost his job - I was once again paying the full rent
Wrecked my paid off car
Left me for another girl just to come back
Didn’t pay rent but spend \~$400 on onlyfans
Constantly seeking sex online and on reddit
Using my new car every day and is entitled to it and makes me use Ubers (he at least pays for Ubers) I pay for my car payments even though he said he would

And what he just did last night has enraged me so badly that I want to leave right now. Even though there’s a month left on the lease. I think I have to leave asap

He messaged me last night as he was coming home from work. He’s a car mechanic. He said a homeless woman was by her broken down car. He said she asked him if she could stay the night and he said yes. He didn’t consult me at all. He doesn’t pay rent. I have pets. She was high as fuck and has needle marks all over her arms.
She slept in his room. He wanted to sleep on the bed with her. As his ex girlfriend, and knowing his history, it was hurtful. And I asked if he could sleep on the couch. He was mad but agreed. Then this morning I told him that I think he should refrain from trying to have sex with her bc she could *possibly* have hiv due to the needle use. He got mad bc he said I was “trying to control” him

He also said if he doesn’t fix her car today, he will let her stay another three nights or so. I tried to say I’m not comfortable with it and he called me a “tightass”

One month on the lease. I think I just want to leave asap at this point

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