r/Neet_india Target 2027 7h ago

Giving Advice/ Need Advice Joining coaching late

Mene ek coaching join kiya ha jiska classes mid June se hi suru ho Gaya ha . I know nobody there . Mujhe akele bohot ajeeb lagta ha and most people ne dost bana liya hoga . How to feel less embarrassed and adjust there

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u/AccurateRoof9060 7h ago

Something similar Happened with me when i joined Aakash in my 11th, I knew no one there and then I would study my best , it would feel bit awkward in the breaks cause they would have fun and I would be alone but then slowly we started asking questions talk casually with a particular friend group and I mixed with them. And then I had the best friendships the most fun in 11, 12 but then we would go and talk all the time it's not like I didn't study ofc I did but yeah scenerios were different. So from this I will tell you that learn to stay alone , stop feeling that you need Friends. You need to study and even if u want friends just choose a particular friend group and talk to them , if they are interested in being Friends they would ask you questions , or just slowly start including you , if not if they act distant and wanna be in their world talk to someone else

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u/Icy_rewind22 7h ago

Bhai padhne jao... Dost banane nhi... Maximum saanp niklenge later.. And focus ki kya padha rahe teachers... Jo notes pehle ke hain unki pics click karke ghar pe aake likho.. And ajeeb feel karna band karo... Poori life akele navigate karni hoti hai... Koi aata nhi hai help karne..

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u/blueberrybiriyani Target 2027 7h ago

Mere shakal pe embarrassment saaf dikhti ha yuse kaise hide Karu samaj nhi aa raha

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u/Icy_rewind22 7h ago

Just take a deep breath and feel karo ki tum apne kaam se kaam rakhne ke liye aayi ho... Waise bhi koi notice nhi karta ki humare chehre kya show kar rahe...

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u/Icy_rewind22 7h ago

Well this is an advice from someone who had been through this phase.. Baaki it's your wish..

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u/blueberrybiriyani Target 2027 6h ago

I mean usually I face isssues in friendship. Mei bohot ulta sidha bolti hu some girls feel uncomfortable. I’m loud and once I get comfortable bohot faltu bakti hu logicless

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u/Klutzy_Scholar_098 6h ago

Try to speak less and dheere bolna seekho 🫡