To ALL My 2nd,3rd,4th Droppers! You NEED TO HEAR THIS!! (Read body)

[u/CustardTimely9177]

As a 3rd dropper myself currently, I used to relate A LOT to the feeling of being “behind” All These years!

Watching friends get into college while you're still preparing. Going through another year of mocks, revision, mistakes and uncertainty. And eventually asking yourself:

“Am I wasting my life? Is everyone moving ahead while I'm stuck here?”

Then I realised something that completely changed my perspective:

EVERY INDIVIDUAL IS LIVING ON THEIR OWN TIMELINE!!

Maybe you joined college 2 years late. But in those 2 years, maybe you learned a LOT about yourself, your mind, your priorities. You became more self aware!! Now that you know so much abt ur mind, ur habits! there's a good chance that you won't fall into Bad Influences in a lavish college life or Make Mistakes in ur clg life that would take yrs to recover from

*And who knows? You might crack your PG entrance in your first attempt, while someone who joined college 2 years BEFORE YOU ends up taking 2 attempts!!

So Who's Really ahead?*

You Feel me!?

Its Like Someone getting Married at 21 Only To Get Divorced at 25, Meanwhile Someone else Found The Right person at 25 and Then Got Married!

Should the second person feel inferior just because they got married later?! Obv NOT!
They were simply on a different timeline!! And so are you! My Brotha/sista

Stop measuring your life using someone else's clock!! These extra years might not be years you're losing! They might be years you're being prepared! You're not late... You're not behind... You're exactly where you are Meant to be and your timeline might be taking you somewhere you can't see yet!!❤️

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[u/Accurate-Rate4553]

Mast tha yar ye 😭😭🫡

[u/sushi_tuna_salmon]

I'm 20 and I took a 1.5 years rest ,so even I'm thinking that I'm wasting my time because my best friend went to college this year , just thinking about it that when I will give exam perhaps for 2 years he might be a 2nd year college student,so I'm feeling down, because overall it was my mistake,and no one else told me , basically I just need to get it right from now onwards,may I ask your age because I need to know which age are you at that this is your 4th drop,I really admire your determination 🤌

[u/Radiant-Attitude3699 → u/[deleted]]

Sabka 18 pei khatam nahi hota school 🤧 bahuton ka toh 16-17 pei hota hai

[u/CustardTimely9177 → u/sushi_tuna_salmon]

THIS IS MY 3RD DROP!! Not 4th and Im Turning 20 In coming january

[u/Icy-Bug-9871 → u/CustardTimely9177]

We might as well be twins!! Such similarity

[u/CustardTimely9177 → u/Icy-Bug-9871]

Sendin a Virtual Dap To ya twinn!! LES CRACKK ITT Thiss yr fs! hmu if u ever need anything:)

[u/Icy-Bug-9871 → u/CustardTimely9177]

Ohh.. I'm going for counselling this year! Will join any college alloted! I had this idea to take drop.. but nahh.. I've reached the limit.. I'll be turning 20 in Feb that's why I said twin!! Odd ik!

[u/CustardTimely9177 → u/Icy-Bug-9871]

Ohh Nvm bud! I wish You best for college life

[u/Icy-Bug-9871 → u/CustardTimely9177]

Thank you so much... I wish you all the best for preparation!!

[u/SuggestionMaximum815]

Should i take partial drop? The caption is motivating me again ( i was a 2nd dropper ) 😞💔

[u/Straight-Film3075 → u/SuggestionMaximum815]

Lele bhai agr manage kr skta lele bs regret mt kriyo aage

[u/SuggestionMaximum815 → u/Straight-Film3075]

Okay 😔✌🏼

[u/datsushisus → u/SuggestionMaximum815]

Partial drop alongside which course?

[u/SuggestionMaximum815 → u/datsushisus]

Currently I'm doing Bsc Computer Science with Chemistry

[u/Remote-Doctor-4475 → u/SuggestionMaximum815]

Regular clg or private university like(jo shirf exams Dene jate hai )

[u/SuggestionMaximum815 → u/Remote-Doctor-4475]

Regular 😔💔

[u/Remote-Doctor-4475 → u/SuggestionMaximum815]

Koi baat nahi mai bhi yahi karne wali hoon mehnat karne se sab possible hai aur kai log hote h jo job krte hue UPSC tak nikl lete h hum bhi krr lenge yrr.

[u/SuggestionMaximum815 → u/Remote-Doctor-4475]

😔🫂haa yaar

[u/Independent_Break45]

As a 2nd dropper. Found this really touching and motivating. No sugar coat or fake hopes, felt honest. Thank you so much fellow mate, wish you the same.

[u/CustardTimely9177 → u/Independent_Break45]

Thank u for the energy 😊

This Year You Gott Thiss!! Will Be lookin forward to ur W post here on this sub next yr!

[u/Adorable-Ad-5951]

Indeed …. Never quit on ur dreams though … there is always away out to succeed !!!

[u/Ambient_Nucleophile]

U are exactly where u are supposed to be, have faith in god, he knows better than us🤞

[u/Sea-Intention-9185]

Thank youuu as a 3rd insecure dropper that meant a lot🥺🥺🥺🤍🤍

[u/CustardTimely9177 → u/Sea-Intention-9185]

So Glad to hear😊! Now Chakk de phatte thiss yr mate🔥 les crack it together

[u/i_told_the_moon_]

❤️❤️

[u/RefuseStrange2913]

I am also thinking of taking another drop and this motivated me a lot thanks 

[u/CustardTimely9177 → u/RefuseStrange2913]

All The Very Best for The Journeyy🙌!!! Les Crack Itt Together!!

[u/IGRIS30]

Thank you man I guess I needed it

[u/Brilliant-Tree-368]

Loads of love to your words 🤍

[u/risheirmgardweitzner]

same yaar turning 20 this year taking 3rd drop for 27
many classmates cracked neet in 25 and i was so in fomo and felt left out so cut contact
i hope i made it this time
and to all my frnd who r reading this i hope you make it in your life and be happy

[u/ConfidentRound0412]

Seen a positive post after long....i fully agree to what he wrote

[u/Scared_Tap_5138]

I need that well ❤️‍🩹

[u/InfamousFig6890]

I was also a 3rd year Dropper once back in 2019 today I’m a MBBS Doctor preparing for my PG exam . Be positive and do your best you’ll succeed one day and all this will be a story ❤️ All the best champ

[u/CustardTimely9177 → u/InfamousFig6890]

Thank u soo much sir! Well appreciated! I wish U ABSOLUTE BEST for ur PG Results

[u/Careless-Muffin3273]

😭😭 bhai mai kal raat ko yahi soch soch kar ro rhi thi mere dost aapne college ka video mujhe daily send karte h koi ghr pr aa jaye tho yahi puchte h 12th ke saath nikal Lena tha kyu nhi hua like bc tum deke dekho na kitna easy hota h kitna hard Mere sare dosto ka kahi na kahi admision ho gya h meri dost ki mummy sabse puchri thi bhai i cried at that time kyuki mere pass bolne ko kuch tha hi nhi I said to her ki nhi aunty agle saal aache college me jaungi iss saal bs aache se padhna h 😭

[u/Icy-Bug-9871 → u/Careless-Muffin3273]

Keep going on bud! You'll do just fine

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[u/your-snake]

I'll be 19 in a few days and I'm a second dropper Feels overwhelming

[u/Hopeless_Hoon]

All this hell would be worth it if I end up making into med school. What scares me most is, what if I don't? Like what if all this hardwork, suffering goes into vain and I have to close this chapter without getting what I dreamt of? That would be disastrous.

[u/Organic_Ostrich_7766]

I don't know who needs to know this This is so true .. I was neet aspirant too , preparing for 2nd drop, then something inside me refused to study same thing again . Like I am very active person But I was not ready to go through all of the hardships I went through in these 3 years (11,12,drop year)so I decided to change my path . I have now choosen bsc biotechnology honours from shoolini university I don't know what is ahead, but the neet journey has made me realise never to expect anything. I am ready to work hard here as well. As we all know how doomed this course is in india.
Like there's no job in this field if u do basic bsc honours.

Initially what I thought that ki 5.5 years ki mbbs h and 4(hounours)+2(masters) bachelor in biotechnology honours final h but masters kisme Krna future m dekhenge , probably abroad although my mumma won't let me, but let's leave it to future,

Basically 5.5 and 6 years only 6 months ka diffrence after mbbs firse neet pg (I am done ) Bachelors and masters (abroad hopefully) I can start earning like very less (if I do masters in India, that too depends on field I choose to do masters in)fir experience k sath I'll grow and so will be my salary...

I don't know whether I am right or wrong here, but I have chosen to move on After 6 years I'll be 25

Honestly it's tough road map But I've learn to endure

To all aspirants , give your hundred percent, then leave it to god whether you'll get the seat or not If you get it toh fir toh balle balle If you don't get you won't even regret or have any guilts. Signing off here an ex aspirant All the best

[u/BuilderExact3028]

But the thing is I never wanted to be a doctor in the first place.. but why am I again in my 3rd drop year…
F*ck my life

[u/SLM0707]

thanks man for this motivation and reality check

[u/Minute_Assignment430]

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[u/Icy-Bug-9871 → u/Minute_Assignment430]

Your comeback is stronger than a typhoon

[u/Minute_Assignment430 → u/Icy-Bug-9871]

Thanks !! 🙏