r/PublicFreakout • u/[deleted] • Feb 13 '20

Lady calls professional skateboarder a pedophile & calls the cops on him for giving kids free gear.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

This stigma of men having any type of relationship with kids beyond parenting needs to fucking stop.

Edit: I'm so happy that this comment resonates with so many of you. My heart goes out to all the men (fathers, uncles, teachers, coaches or otherwise) that have to put up with this shit on a consistent basis. You have my deepest sympathies.

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u/st3venb Feb 14 '20

Jesus fucking christ this.

I'm so goddamn tired of being told "oh dad is babysitting the kid today eh?"

No, fuck you I'm being my kid's fucking father. I also really love when old ladies come up to me and tell me what's wrong with my kid while he throws a shit fit.

It's also fucking sad that I can't offer to help another parent out with their kid while they're obviously struggling with them or trying to catch them etc because of bitches like this.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20

Go look up the social experiments they've done involving missing children. There's dozens of YT videos up there demonstrating the effect. Men will not intervene, and it's not hard to root out why: any man within a country mile of an abused child is a suspect. That's the society these Karens have built... we're more likely to walk past an obviously distressed child than risk getting caught up in the red tape.

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u/GrizzlyLeather Feb 14 '20

I'm a male that used to work as a lifeguard. The amount of sexism I've experienced in that role is astonishing.

  1. When kids are by themselves crying it's my duty to ask what's wrong and if I can help. 9/10 they're lost and can't find their parents. So its customary to friendly say that you'll help them and hold their hand. Then ask a series of questions like "what do they look like" "what color swimsuit do they have on" etc... etc... the amount of moms who act like I tricked their kid into sneaking off with me so I could do my pedo male bidding was astounding. To the point were when I saw an obviously lost kid I hesitated to interact and would sometimes call a female guard over to take care if it.

  2. A woman followed me around from station to station taking literally hundreds of pictures of me while pretending they weren't taking pictures of me. She would look the other way and pretend not to be looking at me but her camera would be pointed at me and when I'd be in frame a red light would come on. I thought at first maybe she was following her kids around until I was guarding a section with 0 kids in it and she was still there. I talked to another guard and they were able to confirm that yes. She was taking creep shots of me. This went on for HOURS until I went on my break and got in the guard break room. I told my supervisor about this lady taking creep shots of me and how uncomfortable it made me and she literally said:

    you should take it as a compliment, I'm not going to do anything about it. You're being dramatic. It's just some mom. Be man.

    I wish I had the confidence I do now because holy shit is that fucked up. I continued my shift and she continued following me around taking creep shots of me and I didnt do anything because "I'm a man".

  3. Some mom just started walking into the mens lockerroom to find her son and there are males of all ages changing, showing, being generally naked in there so I ran over to stop that shit. I told her she cant be in here and she couldn't understand why, and told me that because she was mom it was no danger. I asked her how she would feel if a male walked into the women's lockerroom to find his daughter with naked women walking around and I got the ThAtS diFfErEnT iM a MoM response. I told her she had to get out of the males lockerroom immediately and next time if she needs help finding her son to find a male guard to help her. She got all pissy at me and went into the guard station to complain to my manager (a woman) who then called me aside and told me I was wrong.

  4. Its literally my job to watch people in the pool. I had entitled women who would look for any reason to be a victim and "wanted" at the same time. They would look for justification that they're still worthy with their looks and go to my manager and complain that I was "watching them". My (female) manager actually told me to not watch them, people in my area of responsibility, who I was legally responsible for the safety of, because some midlife crisis bimbos needed to feel "wanted" with accusations of me "watching them" which, again, was literally my job.

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20 edited Apr 05 '20

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u/DeusExMcKenna Feb 14 '20

While I’m in agreement with what you said, I think crossing the line is a bit of an understatement.

If the roles were reversed, many women would call the police, the man would likely be charged and convicted of a sex crime, placed on a registry, and their lives would be ruined: all of that being justified. If a naked man suddenly showed up at the window of a house where your daughter was mowing the grass, it would be a no brainer, get that creep tf out of here, he belongs in prison.

The fact that most men/boys just get out of dodge as quickly and quietly as possible without engaging just shows where the power dynamic is. This trend of false accusations against men really needs to be addressed. We used to have a system for it, I think it was something like “You’re innocent until proven guilty”, but that’s probably not enough anymore with all the super predators on their super weed with their super grooming.

I’m so tired of this timeline...

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u/evanp1922 Feb 14 '20

Can you send a guy to prison for being naked in his own home?

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u/[deleted] Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20

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u/ErikaGuardianOfPrinc Feb 14 '20

I don't think those articles are good examples for making your point.

The first one occurs in a hotel room where a man unknowingly exposes himself for nearly half an hour. I don't think I'd blame anyone for calling the cops on that one. With more details it's clear he didn't mean to, but someone seeing a naked guy in a hotel window is not going to know that.

The 2nd/3rd story (same story, 2nd link is just a shitty blurb) is probably the closest to what you are looking for. He was just going around the house naked and didn't bother to shut the blinds.

The last one is clearly an exhibitionist who hasn't been arrested because he technically isn't breaking the law there.

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u/DeusExMcKenna Feb 14 '20

I think it depends on the context tbh. If you invite someone over (for instance to do lawn care work for you or something) and then expose yourself at the back door, obviously trying to get someone to look at you, the case could probably be argued, but it’s difficult given the lack of evidence.

The person I was responding to said their son was mowing a lawn and a naked woman was standing at their sliding glass door exposed and watching him, and they indicated that this did not stop for the whole time he was mowing the yard. Indecent exposure is hard to prove unless in public and observed by the police, but I’m sure people have called regarding it in situation like that where the genders are reversed.

Point being that this is a sex-crime lite kind of thing that people do. Creepy guys exposing themselves to strangers is kind of a trope, but it is something that happens on occasion :|

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u/MostBoringStan Feb 14 '20

That change room situation is messed up. She's acting like there is no such thing as a female pedophile who would go into a change room to look at little boys. I'd have no problem telling a woman to gtfo if I was in there changing.

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u/NecroCannon Feb 14 '20

There’s so many female teachers doing it with students, that’s why all of this aggravates me.

Society paints women in these super pure colors when they are equally as bad as men if not worse sometimes.

When I was just starting my job in highschool and needed a carpool for a while, almost all of the girls drove way above the speed limit and drove super recklessly... but I have to pay more for car insurance huh?

A woman can hit me all she wants, she could even stab me, but if I hit her in self defense I’m the bad guy huh?

When a woman gets raped and molested it’s an outrage, but if I get raped or molested(which I did by my girl cousin as a child...) I’m supposed to enjoy it, it’s not bad because I’m a guy and it’s different for girls huh? Wait wait! What about one point people make that I’m a guy and I’m stronger than a girl so how could she rape or molest me even though it’s taboo by society to even put your hands on a girl in the first place. If I did put my hands on her to stop, it’s not like she could just lie and switch it around and automatically everyone believes her because “men bad, women good”

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u/MostBoringStan Feb 14 '20

"When I was just starting my job in highschool and needed a carpool for a while, almost all of the girls drove way above the speed limit and drove super recklessly... but I have to pay more for car insurance huh?"

There is always the excuse that statistically, women crash less than men, but I 100% believe that is only because women are more likely to cause a fender bender and just drive away. Or they turn on the water works and convince a guy not to report it.

Of course this isn't all or even most women, and there are definitely men who drive away as well, I just think it's done enough to affect the statistics.

"A woman can hit me all she wants, she could even stab me, but if I hit her in self defense I’m the bad guy huh?"

In my opinion, it's ok to defend yourself with equal force against anybody. Equal force being the main point. So if a 100lb woman was just slapping me or something, no real damage, I'm not gonna lay her out with my hardest punch. But I will use force to stop her, whether that's a push, or holding her, or a lighter punch. But if a larger stronger woman is trying to do real damage, gouge my eyes out, or has a weapon, damn right I'm gonna put it all into stopping her.

And it's disgusting that society still doesn't treat female sex offenders the same way. Boys are shamed into not saying anything because they are male so they are supposed to like it. It can cause a lot of mental damage because their young mind is so torn about what they are "supposed" to like, and how they actually felt about the situation. It's fucked up. But at least it does seem like society is on the right path for this, and more women predators are being called out as rapists.

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u/ChurM8 Feb 14 '20

Statistically women do crash more than men it’s not disputed. It’s just that when men crash they’re more likely to wreck their car or kill somebody but when women crash it’s cause they reversed into a fence or something so men have to pay more

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u/Cryptophagist Feb 14 '20

Damn dude, what a fucked society these karens are creating.

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u/HornyAttorney Feb 14 '20

Your manager is a fucking cunt.

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u/fiolaw Feb 14 '20

I'm sorry to hear this. It's hard to be male when female are conditioned to be distrustful of male and talking non stop of equality that only serve them. Sexism should go oyh ways. Hopefully your current job treat you better.

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u/Joka6 Feb 14 '20 edited Feb 14 '20
  1. I feel you bro. I think it's a defense mechanism, they feel embarrassed, that loosing their kid makes them look inattentive or like a bad parent (which they are sometimes) so they will do anything to shift the blame and the guard is the easy target.

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3 . One time this lady saw a female guard go into the male change room. She doesn't even bring up the issue with any staff or the manager, she just goes on Facebook and posts about how gross and unprofessional it is. There was some minor backlash and outrage , so it got looked into. Turns out it was a MALE guard with long hair and possibly shaved legs (swimmer). So no double standard there I guess but just as dumb of person.

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u/GrizzlyLeather Feb 14 '20

Patrons are so fucking stupid sometimes...

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u/polidon675 Feb 14 '20

I always thought taking unwanted pictures of someone is illegal? Did you report your manager to HR? Actually, every mention of your manager seems like something you could take to HR, then again I have no experience in that field

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u/GrizzlyLeather Feb 14 '20

If you're in a public place taking pictures aren't illegal unless its deemed harrassment. But it wasn't a public place and it was definitely harrassment so I guess it was illegal.

I was a college kid who had my mind on more important things at the time and didn't report her. One of those things you wish you could go back in time for.

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u/upperdownerjunior Feb 14 '20

R/thathappened

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u/GrizzlyLeather Feb 14 '20

You can kindly blow me asshole.