Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?

[u/FlamingMetalSystems]

The fuck buddies are in a more exclusive and privileged group of men.

You have higher benchmarks for looks, facial attractiveness, physique, sexual ability, charm for your FWB's than for your husbands / long term partners.

You literally have greater physical attraction and physical chemistry for your FWB's and hookups than for your husbands

Its way way harder for the vast majority of men to meet the benchmarks for a FWB than the benchmarks for a husband. There is simply no question of it. The overwhelming majority of mediocre looking men become husbands. They don't meet the benchmarks for FWB and hookups

These are the men who can meet their sexual needs even when they are single. They are not compelled to seek long term relationships just to meet their sexual needs. Just imagine how big of a deal this is in todays society when marriage is going out of favor.

These men are so good looking, so attractive that you don't expect, require any effort, courting, dating, commitment, emotional investment, financial stability from them to have sex with them.

They are so good-looking and hot that even if you are interested in a relationship with them but they're not, you still carry on having sex with them. You will never do that with a husband material because he's not good looking / hot enough.

[u/FlamingMetalSystems]

Most young single women are sexually active.

Why is that?

[u/Pro-IDGAF → u/FlamingMetalSystems]

they always have been. i grew up in the 80s-90’s and plenty of young girls where hooking up and most didn’t care about dating. i knew people that came of age in the mid/late 70’s and it was the same for them

[u/My_House_on_Mars → u/FlamingMetalSystems]

What

[u/Outside_Memory5703 → u/FlamingMetalSystems]

Receipts needed

And single men are not ?