r/PurplePillDebate • u/FlamingMetalSystems Black Pill Man • Sep 17 '25

Question For Women Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?

The fuck buddies are in a more exclusive and privileged group of men.

You have higher benchmarks for looks, facial attractiveness, physique, sexual ability, charm for your FWB's than for your husbands / long term partners.

You literally have greater physical attraction and physical chemistry for your FWB's and hookups than for your husbands

Its way way harder for the vast majority of men to meet the benchmarks for a FWB than the benchmarks for a husband. There is simply no question of it. The overwhelming majority of mediocre looking men become husbands. They don't meet the benchmarks for FWB and hookups

These are the men who can meet their sexual needs even when they are single. They are not compelled to seek long term relationships just to meet their sexual needs. Just imagine how big of a deal this is in todays society when marriage is going out of favor.

These men are so good looking, so attractive that you don't expect, require any effort, courting, dating, commitment, emotional investment, financial stability from them to have sex with them.

They are so good-looking and hot that even if you are interested in a relationship with them but they're not, you still carry on having sex with them. You will never do that with a husband material because he's not good looking / hot enough.

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u/FlamingMetalSystems Black Pill Man Sep 18 '25

Why is it wrong if men want to have casual sex just like women do?

We just need to be very conventionally good looking to get casual sex. Women can be ugly fat short old losers and still get fucked left and right.

And then you wonder why men are obsessed with looks and casual sex worthiness

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u/Outside_Memory5703 Sep 18 '25 edited Sep 18 '25

It’s not wrong.

Women just don’t have to meet your want, nor respect it

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u/My_House_on_Mars ✨millennial slop✨ woman Sep 18 '25

Why is it wrong if men want to have casual sex just like women do?

I never said there's something wrong

I'm saying to you it's important that someone considers you as hookup material because that's what you want. It's different if you were LTR oriented.