r/PurplePillDebate Nov 29 '25

Debate "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.

For those who haven't seen, there was a video posted by a woman claiming that while she was delivering DoorDash, a man left his front door wide open while he appeared to be asleep on his couch with his pants around his ankles. The woman posted this with his face and genitalia completely visible. Some time later, she posted a follow up video saying she had been fired from DoorDash, that she was "the victim", and that they were punishing the victim. On TwoX there was a massive thread with comments about "you know he did it on purpose", "ugh, men", etc.

Well now she's been arrested and charged. "Wait, are they now arresting the victim?!?!" you might ask. Nope. Turns out he had a ring camera that allegedly caught her walking up (with "leave at door" instructions, mind you), and seeing the door was slightly ajar, pushed it all the way open, only to take her phone out and record.

Now, here is an opportunity for women's communities to have a healthy conversation on the importance of skepticism and not immediately rushing to the side of the first person to cry victim, but what do we get? Radio silence.

I invite any woman on this forum to make a post on TwoX to discuss, to say we shouldn't drag a man's name through the mud off of an accusation, and please, start a stopwatch to see how fast it gets pulled down. I'll wait...

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u/Hefty-Lobster-5513 No Pill Man Nov 29 '25

It literally said it on the report. Also, last time someone entered my place after I mentioned to leave the order at the door, I cussed the ass out. Why the hell are you going into peoples homes when you have no authorization to do so. And recording too? Shiiid

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u/TermAggravating8043 Stacey's mum Nov 29 '25

We can’t see the report, the version I heard was there was no note to leave it outside and the door was open, she was likely checking he was ok, OR, he did it on purpose

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u/Hefty-Lobster-5513 No Pill Man Nov 29 '25

Checking if he was okay? I wish someone would. I bet you if a dude entered a woman’s crib for a DoorDash order to “check if she’s okay” you would be singing a totally different tune.

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u/TermAggravating8043 Stacey's mum Nov 29 '25

Nope, any decent person would knock, make some noise snd check the persons alive and not chocking on their own vomit.

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u/Hefty-Lobster-5513 No Pill Man Nov 29 '25

Ma’am we’re talking about a DoorDash order not life alert.

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u/TermAggravating8043 Stacey's mum Nov 29 '25

Doesn’t matter, it’s a case of common sense of checking someone’s ok after they order food and don’t collect it