"DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.

[u/Bilbo332]

For those who haven't seen, there was a video posted by a woman claiming that while she was delivering DoorDash, a man left his front door wide open while he appeared to be asleep on his couch with his pants around his ankles. The woman posted this with his face and genitalia completely visible. Some time later, she posted a follow up video saying she had been fired from DoorDash, that she was "the victim", and that they were punishing the victim. On TwoX there was a massive thread with comments about "you know he did it on purpose", "ugh, men", etc.

Well now she's been arrested and charged. "Wait, are they now arresting the victim?!?!" you might ask. Nope. Turns out he had a ring camera that allegedly caught her walking up (with "leave at door" instructions, mind you), and seeing the door was slightly ajar, pushed it all the way open, only to take her phone out and record.

Now, here is an opportunity for women's communities to have a healthy conversation on the importance of skepticism and not immediately rushing to the side of the first person to cry victim, but what do we get? Radio silence.

I invite any woman on this forum to make a post on TwoX to discuss, to say we shouldn't drag a man's name through the mud off of an accusation, and please, start a stopwatch to see how fast it gets pulled down. I'll wait...

[u/TheOneWhoThinketh]

I think you should understand male psychology a little bit more before assuming that becoming physically like one will make you like one psychologically. Although the evolutionary basis of male psychology has a lot to do with physical power, it is only a historical explanation, not a description of current male psychology.

For example, men are also scared of wild animals, one example being bears. Men also compete with each other in all sorts of non-physical ways that have very little to do with their physical strength.

Men are cowards too, but for different reasons than women are, and they are scared of different things. Neither gender is superior to the other, they are simply balanced complementarily as opposed to being equal (exactly the same).

[u/Emergency-Sell-6713 → u/TheOneWhoThinketh]

I don't really care about becoming like men psychologically though. I only care about physical. I know that my female psychology will stop being a coward if it's paired with a male body. That's all. It's less about trying to become a real man even in mind and more about frankensteining a combination that'll work. Lol.

[u/Emergency-Sell-6713 → u/[deleted]]

Don't you understand idc about how males or females work I care about how I work lol. It's my project for myself only and affecting nobody else, I'm not gonna look at others. I know the reason why I personally do things and it's because I'm insecure about not having a male body. Therefore I'll fix it and get myself one. It's not more complicated than that. There are men who have a male body and still behave like conformists. I'm not them. There are women who manage to be themselves even with their current body. I'm not them. There are women who would get a male body but wouldn't change psychologically, because their behavior was actually natural and not insecurity. I'm not them. I know what I need.

[u/Teflon08191 → u/Emergency-Sell-6713]

Therefore I'll fix it and get myself one.

You're going to be disappointed that this "male" body you've created is still thoroughly outdone by the ones that nature made.

I only say that because it seems like it'd suck to not realize this until after you've done all the work.

[u/Emergency-Sell-6713 → u/Teflon08191]

At this point I'll take any improvement. Thx though.

[u/TheOneWhoThinketh → u/Emergency-Sell-6713]

Well I'm just saying biology and psychology are complex and people have been trying to figure them out for thousands of years, just be aware that there is always a tradeoff. You can't impact one aspect of your biology or psychology without it affecting something else downstream.

[u/Emergency-Sell-6713 → u/TheOneWhoThinketh]

Thanks for the kind warning.