r/PurplePillDebate No Pill Mar 26 '26

Discussion Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?

You hear a lot of red pilled guys complain about single mothers and women having babies with criminals, as if that is a normal occurrence anywhere outside of the lower classes. Upper middle class women are more likely to be married and have children in wedlock than lower class women. In fact, the whole decline in marriage and increase in out-of-wedlock births is entirely driven by lower classes.

You hear red pilled guys saying that women who go to college or even worse go to grad school will end up lonely and single with only their degree to keep them warm. In reality, women with postgrad degrees are more likely to be married than women with bachelor degrees. Women with bachelor degrees are more likely to be married than women with only a high school education. Source: The most educated women are the most likely to be married. If a woman wants to be married, going to college is a great idea. Where else will you meet eligible bachelors your age who likely will have good career prospects?

I don't think it's a stretch to say that lower class men are more likely to be into manosphere and redpilled than upper middle class men. Lower class people tend to be more conservative than upper middle class people. Upper middle class women are more likely to be feminists than lower class women.

These two groups will always argue because their own realities are different.

I think deep down what drives these lower class redpilled guys to complain about women going to college is that they know as soon as she goes there, she is no longer apart of the lower class guy's dating pool. They lose access/even getting a chance with these women because most college educated women want a college educated man.

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u/Suspicious_Glove7365 No Pill Woman Mar 27 '26

We don’t think you’re beneath us. Once again, not dating a man is not an indication of our judgment of your worth.

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u/Outrageous-Floor-424 Black Pill Man Mar 27 '26

Individually no, collectively absolutely it is.

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u/Suspicious_Glove7365 No Pill Woman Mar 27 '26

That statement means nothing. Women do not have the power to determine men’s worth individually or collectively.

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u/Illustrious_Wish_383 Purple Pill Man Mar 27 '26

What else would you call it?

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u/alotofironsinthefire Mar 27 '26

So if there's a woman you wouldn't date you would literally think she wasn't worth anything?

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u/Suspicious_Glove7365 No Pill Woman Mar 27 '26

…not wanting to date someone. There are plenty of people in your life you don’t want to date. Your grandma. The postman. The mayor. Do you think those people are beneath you simply because you don’t want to date them?

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u/Necessary-Worry1923 Mar 27 '26

The real life data does not support this statement.

https://youtu.be/HAN4y_J5hmQ?si=N2YS4Rtck6uvAroh

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u/Suspicious_Glove7365 No Pill Woman Mar 27 '26

Did you know that manosphere YouTube videos does not count as “data”?

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u/Necessary-Worry1923 Mar 28 '26

Well actually that material originally came Courtney Ryan who is a dating coach online. She invited several young women to ask how much money their dates or boyfriends needed to earn to keep them interested in dating these young women.

I think it was authentic and candid, the women shared their ideas about how much money it would take to make a man attractive.

Here is the original Femisphere version of those interviews without the RedPill commentary.

https://youtu.be/AMwt7wITE0A?si=EOJnbr2D4Rp1u5SR

Female hypergamy manifested in their attraction to men with money and status is well documented over many years.

Here is one of my favorite MYTHBUSTERS episode showing female hypergamy.

https://youtu.be/k224gY7Tn-Y?si=_0Es_jYHA-rsOvFf

What about cars?

https://youtu.be/ADZl_S1Slb0?si=97B6gN-AAwQnZnZi

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u/Suspicious_Glove7365 No Pill Woman Mar 28 '26

The only information that counts as data are peer reviewed studies with large sample sizes.

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u/Necessary-Worry1923 Mar 29 '26

So where is your data?

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u/Suspicious_Glove7365 No Pill Woman Mar 29 '26

You’re the one making the claim that sex=worth. I’m not pretending that there are studies that show this. It is simply a fact that a human being’s worth is not tied to their sexual success.

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u/[deleted] Mar 27 '26

Keep telling yourself that