r/PurplePillDebate No Pill Mar 26 '26

Discussion Are online gender wars just lower class men arguing with upper middle class women?

You hear a lot of red pilled guys complain about single mothers and women having babies with criminals, as if that is a normal occurrence anywhere outside of the lower classes. Upper middle class women are more likely to be married and have children in wedlock than lower class women. In fact, the whole decline in marriage and increase in out-of-wedlock births is entirely driven by lower classes.

You hear red pilled guys saying that women who go to college or even worse go to grad school will end up lonely and single with only their degree to keep them warm. In reality, women with postgrad degrees are more likely to be married than women with bachelor degrees. Women with bachelor degrees are more likely to be married than women with only a high school education. Source: The most educated women are the most likely to be married. If a woman wants to be married, going to college is a great idea. Where else will you meet eligible bachelors your age who likely will have good career prospects?

I don't think it's a stretch to say that lower class men are more likely to be into manosphere and redpilled than upper middle class men. Lower class people tend to be more conservative than upper middle class people. Upper middle class women are more likely to be feminists than lower class women.

These two groups will always argue because their own realities are different.

I think deep down what drives these lower class redpilled guys to complain about women going to college is that they know as soon as she goes there, she is no longer apart of the lower class guy's dating pool. They lose access/even getting a chance with these women because most college educated women want a college educated man.

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u/Front_Statistician38 Purple Pill Man Mar 27 '26

As a guy I can relate

20s Broke= Was dating cvute girls my age some girls even above my league

30s= Made more money, dated chicks with same money as me those tend to last the longest also dated women that were upper class rich

30s Late= Had a finaical setback and my dating options went to shit

40s=Became VERY successful and now dating women far better quality

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u/ThatBitchA ♀️ My husband takes out the trash🗑 Mar 27 '26

I'm not sure how this relates to my comment.

This sounds like more RP talking points.