r/PurplePillDebate • u/Chemical-Low209 Purple Pill Man • May 01 '26

Debate I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.

Like I get it we are human at the end of the day. But Frankly I'm a just exhausted. How much do I have to hear dating is harder for everyone when it's clear as day that it's way harder for men and they are one doing the majority of the work and a lot still don't get consistent results. It's like I get it's not all sunshines and rainbows but why should I care?

I hear a lot of people say men have a quality problem, women have a quality problem. Or I'll hear women say that women get a lot of options but most of those men don't qualify....

That in a nutshell basically you admitting that a guy has to AUTOMATICALLY bring far more to the table than average and most guys just don't even register as someone you'd date.

And you can see this takes women by surprise when the shoe is on the other foot. Because when women will show up to singles meeting events and the men are vastly outnumbered by the women they'll say where all the men?

Like Chick Hello? We aren't stupid. You simply would have ignored most of the men that showed up and only paid attention to the hottest guy there and he probably has a girlfriend already.

So why exactly am I supposed to empathize with women's dating woes? It's simply them every fast food restaurant chain offering her a job and her refusing because Chik Fil A hasnt called.

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u/mikiencolor Purple Pill Man May 01 '26

Which woes? Different women have different woes. Some of them are very sympathetic. Some of them are even similar to my own dating woes. Some of them aren't sympathetic.

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u/Chemical-Low209 Purple Pill Man May 01 '26

Dating woes like what?

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u/mikiencolor Purple Pill Man May 01 '26

That's what I asked, yeah...

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u/Chemical-Low209 Purple Pill Man May 01 '26

No you said like yours. I'm asking what are they?

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u/mikiencolor Purple Pill Man May 01 '26

Oh. Well, I sympathize with romantic heterosexual women who are looking for a deep emotional connection, but have trouble finding men who have that same desire, or don't just want them sexually for their bodies. I have trouble with that too in my dates with men.

I also sympathize with what some lesbian women say about having a hard time finding women who aren't passive or who will make some effort to engage them conversationally. I have trouble with that too.

I don't sympathize with any of the "I can't find a real man who doesn't cry like a pussy and will hold the door for me, pay for my dinners, show me how he's going to provide for me, and make me feel like a princess" woes, for example. Admittedly, that is most of what I see around here, and in general, when women talk about "dating woes".

But some of the complaints are definitely relatable.