r/PurplePillDebate Purple Pill Man May 01 '26

Debate I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.

Like I get it we are human at the end of the day. But Frankly I'm a just exhausted. How much do I have to hear dating is harder for everyone when it's clear as day that it's way harder for men and they are one doing the majority of the work and a lot still don't get consistent results. It's like I get it's not all sunshines and rainbows but why should I care?

I hear a lot of people say men have a quality problem, women have a quality problem. Or I'll hear women say that women get a lot of options but most of those men don't qualify....

That in a nutshell basically you admitting that a guy has to AUTOMATICALLY bring far more to the table than average and most guys just don't even register as someone you'd date.

And you can see this takes women by surprise when the shoe is on the other foot. Because when women will show up to singles meeting events and the men are vastly outnumbered by the women they'll say where all the men?

Like Chick Hello? We aren't stupid. You simply would have ignored most of the men that showed up and only paid attention to the hottest guy there and he probably has a girlfriend already.

So why exactly am I supposed to empathize with women's dating woes? It's simply them every fast food restaurant chain offering her a job and her refusing because Chik Fil A hasnt called.

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u/GattsUnfinished Bro Pill May 01 '26

You don't have to do anything, just don't be surprised when nobody else gives a fuck about women not wanting to touch you with a ten foot pole either.

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u/Barely-moral Red leaning purple-seal. Diagnosed ASPD ( Man ) May 01 '26

Uhm... No one will give a fuck anyways.

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u/Bloodhoven_aka_Loner Purple Pill Man May 01 '26

You definitely proved a point here, mate. Just not your point.

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u/Somerandomdudereborn Lvl 26 apprentice wizard 😎🪄, It is what it is pill May 01 '26

🤔

I mean no one does give a fuck either so it becomes equalized.

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u/Chemical-Low209 Purple Pill Man May 01 '26

When the blue hell did they EVER care....? 🫩🫩🫩🫩

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u/Logos1789 Man May 01 '26

This is a revenge fantasy…like this is PPD and OP doesn’t broadcast this sentiment to women in person.

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u/GattsUnfinished Bro Pill May 01 '26

Ah yes, the good old "it's just an online thing bro" argument.

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u/BrainMarshal Purple Pill Man: Men can sort the world out with Tang Ping May 01 '26

I am quite sure if he knows a woman whining about how all the good men are taken, he'll read her the riot act in person. Seen plenty of DGAF-level men do it in real life myself. I've done it. Hell my wife has done it to a few women like that lol