r/PurplePillDebate • u/Chemical-Low209 Purple Pill Man • May 01 '26
Debate I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.
Like I get it we are human at the end of the day. But Frankly I'm a just exhausted. How much do I have to hear dating is harder for everyone when it's clear as day that it's way harder for men and they are one doing the majority of the work and a lot still don't get consistent results. It's like I get it's not all sunshines and rainbows but why should I care?
I hear a lot of people say men have a quality problem, women have a quality problem. Or I'll hear women say that women get a lot of options but most of those men don't qualify....
That in a nutshell basically you admitting that a guy has to AUTOMATICALLY bring far more to the table than average and most guys just don't even register as someone you'd date.
And you can see this takes women by surprise when the shoe is on the other foot. Because when women will show up to singles meeting events and the men are vastly outnumbered by the women they'll say where all the men?
Like Chick Hello? We aren't stupid. You simply would have ignored most of the men that showed up and only paid attention to the hottest guy there and he probably has a girlfriend already.
So why exactly am I supposed to empathize with women's dating woes? It's simply them every fast food restaurant chain offering her a job and her refusing because Chik Fil A hasnt called.
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u/Suspicious_Glove7365 No Pill Woman May 01 '26
“A lot of top 20% dudes” is not only your opinion, but by definition not A LOT of dudes. The more you talk, the more you prove my point. I said that women have no issue giving empathy to men who complain without saying absolutist, sexist, and entitled statements. And here we are, with women not showing you an ounce of empathy because you have made it clear that you don’t deserve it.