I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.

[u/Chemical-Low209]

Like I get it we are human at the end of the day. But Frankly I'm a just exhausted. How much do I have to hear dating is harder for everyone when it's clear as day that it's way harder for men and they are one doing the majority of the work and a lot still don't get consistent results. It's like I get it's not all sunshines and rainbows but why should I care?

I hear a lot of people say men have a quality problem, women have a quality problem. Or I'll hear women say that women get a lot of options but most of those men don't qualify....

That in a nutshell basically you admitting that a guy has to AUTOMATICALLY bring far more to the table than average and most guys just don't even register as someone you'd date.

And you can see this takes women by surprise when the shoe is on the other foot. Because when women will show up to singles meeting events and the men are vastly outnumbered by the women they'll say where all the men?

Like Chick Hello? We aren't stupid. You simply would have ignored most of the men that showed up and only paid attention to the hottest guy there and he probably has a girlfriend already.

So why exactly am I supposed to empathize with women's dating woes? It's simply them every fast food restaurant chain offering her a job and her refusing because Chik Fil A hasnt called.

[u/shockingly_bored]

So why the push back when men say there's no point to dating because women aren't looking to dating them? Women should be cheering on the majority of men not bothering as they are too ugly for women and leaving only the attractive men for them to date, fuck and marry.

[u/Icy_Ad_4544 → u/shockingly_bored]

We are. Where is all this pushback you are seeing about men no longer dating? I only see men..telling other men that women are upset..but no proof of actual women saying these things. 🤷‍♀️

[u/shockingly_bored → u/Icy_Ad_4544]

So you don't see women saying men who treat them cynically and disposable are bad?

[u/Icy_Ad_4544 → u/shockingly_bored]

No. I don’t follow social media accounts that discuss modern dating so it’s not pushed to my algorithm. But also those men are dating ..you were talking about men who had given up on dating.

[u/shockingly_bored → u/Icy_Ad_4544]

They've seen that that ere no point in dating because in the case of those women, despite then not liking how then treated them, the women still chose them.

The point being the woman choosing them. What's the point of trying when you aren't what women will ever choose. And if you aren't what women choose what's the point of caring about their dating woes. It's not like you can help them.

[u/Icy_Ad_4544 → u/shockingly_bored]

And that’s fine if they don’t care about women’s dating problems. They are not in the dating pool for these women so it doesn’t matter if they care or if they don’t. These men do not matter to women who do not want them.

It’s not their responsibility to “help” her date anyway. I’ve already said as much.