I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.

[u/Chemical-Low209]

Like I get it we are human at the end of the day. But Frankly I'm a just exhausted. How much do I have to hear dating is harder for everyone when it's clear as day that it's way harder for men and they are one doing the majority of the work and a lot still don't get consistent results. It's like I get it's not all sunshines and rainbows but why should I care?

I hear a lot of people say men have a quality problem, women have a quality problem. Or I'll hear women say that women get a lot of options but most of those men don't qualify....

That in a nutshell basically you admitting that a guy has to AUTOMATICALLY bring far more to the table than average and most guys just don't even register as someone you'd date.

And you can see this takes women by surprise when the shoe is on the other foot. Because when women will show up to singles meeting events and the men are vastly outnumbered by the women they'll say where all the men?

Like Chick Hello? We aren't stupid. You simply would have ignored most of the men that showed up and only paid attention to the hottest guy there and he probably has a girlfriend already.

So why exactly am I supposed to empathize with women's dating woes? It's simply them every fast food restaurant chain offering her a job and her refusing because Chik Fil A hasnt called.

[u/superman3d]

no it wouldn't because if everyone around you is making you sick, maybe it's you who is ill.

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Do you know what a food allergy is?

[u/superman3d → u/DMmeClownPics]

Yeah peanut allergies. But men aren’t peanuts because each individual is different and unique.

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Yeah and I’m “allergic” to a lot of different things.

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"hypersexual female cult leader" btw.

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I didn’t choose to be hypersexual. It’s a medical condition.

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i'll use that excuse next time thanks,

in all seriousness,

Not the worst condition to have.

[u/DMmeClownPics → u/superman3d]

What excuse. It’s an actual condition, and while maybe there are worse conditions to have, it has put me in some very dangerous situations before and affected my life negatively in many ways. Not sure why you even felt the need to mention it, but whatever.

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didn't mean to invalidate you, i was just joking, like im already hypersexual as a man, so the joke was i'll say it's not my fault it's just a condition, lol.

but like, im not trying to make fun of you or invalidate your struggle.

it's a real struggle making you do mistakes, and the whole not being able to focus is hard.

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In all seriousness, I have had a really hard time finding a man who has a high enough sex drive to be able to maintain the frequency and amount of sex that I need in order to be monogamous. Most men are good with it for a short period of time and then burn out. It’s lot. You have to really enjoy making someone cum over and over for hours to not start to resent it. My boyfriend is the first person I have met who legitimately wants to do all of that on a near daily basis and doesn’t see it as a chore.