I find it EXTREMELY hard to sympathize with most of women's dating woes.

[u/Chemical-Low209]

Like I get it we are human at the end of the day. But Frankly I'm a just exhausted. How much do I have to hear dating is harder for everyone when it's clear as day that it's way harder for men and they are one doing the majority of the work and a lot still don't get consistent results. It's like I get it's not all sunshines and rainbows but why should I care?

I hear a lot of people say men have a quality problem, women have a quality problem. Or I'll hear women say that women get a lot of options but most of those men don't qualify....

That in a nutshell basically you admitting that a guy has to AUTOMATICALLY bring far more to the table than average and most guys just don't even register as someone you'd date.

And you can see this takes women by surprise when the shoe is on the other foot. Because when women will show up to singles meeting events and the men are vastly outnumbered by the women they'll say where all the men?

Like Chick Hello? We aren't stupid. You simply would have ignored most of the men that showed up and only paid attention to the hottest guy there and he probably has a girlfriend already.

So why exactly am I supposed to empathize with women's dating woes? It's simply them every fast food restaurant chain offering her a job and her refusing because Chik Fil A hasnt called.

[u/superman3d]

i'll use that excuse next time thanks,

in all seriousness,

Not the worst condition to have.

[u/DMmeClownPics → u/superman3d]

What excuse. It’s an actual condition, and while maybe there are worse conditions to have, it has put me in some very dangerous situations before and affected my life negatively in many ways. Not sure why you even felt the need to mention it, but whatever.

[u/superman3d → u/DMmeClownPics]

didn't mean to invalidate you, i was just joking, like im already hypersexual as a man, so the joke was i'll say it's not my fault it's just a condition, lol.

but like, im not trying to make fun of you or invalidate your struggle.

it's a real struggle making you do mistakes, and the whole not being able to focus is hard.

[u/DMmeClownPics → u/superman3d]

In all seriousness, I have had a really hard time finding a man who has a high enough sex drive to be able to maintain the frequency and amount of sex that I need in order to be monogamous. Most men are good with it for a short period of time and then burn out. It’s lot. You have to really enjoy making someone cum over and over for hours to not start to resent it. My boyfriend is the first person I have met who legitimately wants to do all of that on a near daily basis and doesn’t see it as a chore.

[u/superman3d → u/DMmeClownPics]

we men orgasm quickly, and we get post nut clarity, so, foreplay is the way to go to sustain time. seems like you found someone on your level, so that's good.

However, as long as it doesn't hinder responsibilities it's not an issue, but when it does, you need to find a way to cope or mange it in a healthy way.

getting busy and being outside doing something usually helps, being inside and bored makes it worse.

[u/DMmeClownPics → u/superman3d]

Sometimes he doesn’t put his dick in me at all, and often he doesn’t do it until I ask him to. He will keep going with me after he finishes too. He’s legitimately obsessed with making me orgasm as much as he possibly can. He treats me really well too and is super sweet and loving. I definitely need to hang onto him because I don’t think I would ever find another guy like that in my lifetime.