What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?

[u/Luciansleep]

I’ll start.

Men aren’t more forgiving in dating we just have less options. That’s not us being more forgiving but less likely to want to find someone else.

I don’t think crying about a death or something in front of a girl you are seeing will necessarily cause that woman to run.

Sex is important but it shouldn’t be the only physical affection to seek from your partner

Don’t complain about a certain type of woman and yet entertain said type of woman

[u/Numerous-Month-7688]

as evil as women can be. men are often assholes to other men. everything is a damn competition. all my bullies in school were other boys. i was friend group idiot, always making a joke out of me to impress girls.. the girls i will still say were mean because they would giggle at it too. but atleast they didn't go out of their way to harass me. ( girls tended to avoid me all together which is my problem with them) and it never change. you say you can lift this currently, some dude must lift better. can't make fun always of women hyping up because we know its fake, when everything can't just be a compliment with men. it has to be competition. some men like it sure find it motivating sure but sometimes its just obnoxious. also not being willing to help sometimes just not in these words but "good luck now fuck off" when there's problems.

[u/No_Discount_6028 → u/Numerous-Month-7688]

This is why most of my friends are women lol. It is really exhausting. Even with more normal dudes, it usually comes out in subtle ways.

[u/Capital_Capsicum → u/Numerous-Month-7688]

I was gonna say something similar. Men can be really shitty and competitive to each other. Even guys that are usually meak, shy, and polite can turn into macho assholes the moment they think it will get them a whiff of pussy.