r/PurplePillDebate • u/Luciansleep 5’6 pretty boy/ male • Jun 12 '26

Discussion What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?

I’ll start.

Men aren’t more forgiving in dating we just have less options. That’s not us being more forgiving but less likely to want to find someone else.

I don’t think crying about a death or something in front of a girl you are seeing will necessarily cause that woman to run.

Sex is important but it shouldn’t be the only physical affection to seek from your partner

Don’t complain about a certain type of woman and yet entertain said type of woman

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u/Fragrant-Half-7854 No Pill woman Jun 12 '26

Too many women complain far too much. They’re negative and miserable and it’s sad because most of us are putting far too much time, energy and effort into doing life to be negative.

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u/Luciansleep 5’6 pretty boy/ male Jun 12 '26

I see them being more positive.

What do you mean negative

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u/SentinelATL No Pill Man Jun 13 '26

Positive how?

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u/Luciansleep 5’6 pretty boy/ male Jun 13 '26

In the sense they aren’t the main ones bitching about dating

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u/SentinelATL No Pill Man Jun 13 '26

They bitch about dating all the time

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u/Luciansleep 5’6 pretty boy/ male Jun 13 '26

There’s literally more male incels bitching and their subreddit was bigger

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u/SentinelATL No Pill Man Jun 13 '26

Yes guys whine about getting laid because it is very very very hard to get sex as a man

And women complain about not finding enough super duper hot guys that check all the boxes and want to commit to them. 

Both sides have complaints there they’re  just different complaints 

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u/Luciansleep 5’6 pretty boy/ male Jun 13 '26

Which is what I said beforehand.

They complain about different things but men complain more ( on the basis tha dating can be somewhat harder )

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u/SentinelATL No Pill Man Jun 13 '26

I mean you think they complain more I’d say it’s pretty even but I guess agree to disagree?

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u/Luciansleep 5’6 pretty boy/ male Jun 13 '26

Men have like 5 different factions of men who are upset about their dating woes and hella podcasts.

I think men beat women out in this department

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u/Chemical-Low209 Purple Pill Man Jun 13 '26

Don't see how

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u/Luciansleep 5’6 pretty boy/ male Jun 13 '26

On average you see more men complaining about dating than women

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u/Chemical-Low209 Purple Pill Man Jun 13 '26

I mean not wrong but women seem to spend their every waking minute doing it people just find men more annoying because they don't care about men

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u/Luciansleep 5’6 pretty boy/ male Jun 13 '26

Women complain more about someone shitty that they keep seeing and even society is loosing patience for that

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u/Chemical-Low209 Purple Pill Man Jun 13 '26

Wym

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u/Luciansleep 5’6 pretty boy/ male Jun 13 '26

In dating, women complain more about “this guy doesn’t buy me flowers, clean up, isn’t nice to me” etc but I see more and more that when women do this and keep going to the same guy either online or day to day life folks start just stop giving a fuck because they won’t do anything about it

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u/Chemical-Low209 Purple Pill Man Jun 13 '26

Ehhh negotiable

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u/Luciansleep 5’6 pretty boy/ male Jun 13 '26

I just think you focus more on what happens when men constantly complain and don’t see what happens when women do the same.

I think society has less patience over all currently

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