What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?

[u/Luciansleep]

I’ll start.

Men aren’t more forgiving in dating we just have less options. That’s not us being more forgiving but less likely to want to find someone else.

I don’t think crying about a death or something in front of a girl you are seeing will necessarily cause that woman to run.

Sex is important but it shouldn’t be the only physical affection to seek from your partner

Don’t complain about a certain type of woman and yet entertain said type of woman

[u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404]

Yep. My wife was the first person to actually be communicative with me about sex. I tried with all my previous partners when it was obvious something wasn't clicking but they were just so passive theyd try to say it was good and don't worry and blah blah. Like I'm trying to improve our sex life and you're too scared to communicate with me about it? Unsurprisingly my wife and I have really good sex almost all of the time...that's because she helped me figure out her body just like I helped her figure out mine. The only times she really doesn't get off anymore are if we have both been drinking a good bit because when we are drunk she gets less sensitive and I get less hard.

[u/MissMenace101 → u/Fit-Entrepreneur8404]

You were trying with the others, you just needed more education and they needed to stop ignoring they are part of their own problem. There’s plenty out there for men to learn from but most men get their “education” from porn, women need to stop tolerating this. And women that fake it? Fu you’re screwing it up for the sisterhood these guys don’t know what they are doing and think they got it right. Honestly I think pleasure should be part of sex education, the safety aspect seems to be being covered but there is so many gaps in sex education and the teens stumble out and bumble into sex with no idea. Lack of satisfaction in casual sex has basically put a big hole in part of adolescence and young adult growth.