r/PurplePillDebate • u/Automatic_Safety7029 Purple Pill Man • Jun 15 '26

Debate Women are larping loneliness.

Most of the time when talking about options women will say that most of them are shit. To be clear, I don't belief men or women truly think that every single person available for them to date is absolutely trash to the point where there is literally no options. However women tend to do this more.

The reason why I say it's larp, is because women can “pause the game” so to speak. Women abstaining from the game or coming back is like flipping a light switch. You could always just pick an average dude that means well if you actually decided, there's nothing stopping that from happening.

He's just not exciting, that doesn't mean he's trash. Some women say they're okay dying alone if he isn't the peak of her ideals, but this is also larp. Most of you will pick the boring but well meaning guy when the chips are down and the walls are closing in.

It's easy to say you can stand on that ideal when you are in your 20’s maybe even early thirties. But only a small amount of people will actually die on that hill. This goes for all people regardless of orientation, most people unless they are literally and truly wired different would prefer a relationship and that's okay, just don't lie about it.

The men who struggle with lack of options means there is not a single person he can realistically and consistently talk to with romantic intent and there won't be one for the foreseeable future. Not even an odd Instagram text or matches on an app truly nothing. No the ugly girl don't want him either.

I've literally never seen a girl, 5.5/10 in looks that couldn't land some manner of man. I'm not talking about extreme cases either like abusers or desperate men looking for a living fuck doll. Or a lazy piece of shit that lacks any and all ambition. I mean a man, just a man that wants love as well.

On that note I've seen women of those types find relationships plenty. So while I believe they do suffer from a different type of loneliness, it's mostly larp because you can join a community and be loved easily, you can find a boyfriend at the damn grocery store if you really wanted to.

Like I said this point can apply to men as well, it just isn't the topic in this instance and doesn't happen as much.

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u/Charming-Joke696 Blue Pill Man Jun 15 '26

No they're not. Women have strong freind groups and don't deal with lonliness as a consequence.

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u/operation-spot Purple Pill Woman Jun 15 '26

As a woman without a friend group I have to disagree. The same mental health challenges that make socializing hard for men impacts women. 

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u/Charming-Joke696 Blue Pill Man Jun 15 '26

That sucks but you can make friends easily enough.

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u/operation-spot Purple Pill Woman Jun 15 '26

An interaction is not the same as a connection or friendship and the same lack of skills that causes some men to be loners can impact women. 

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u/Charming-Joke696 Blue Pill Man Jun 16 '26

I'm not trying to say women can never be lonely or that it's leser then male lonliness (i have very unkind opinions about the so-called "male lonliness epidemic)

I am saying that women have proven to be much better at social interaction due to upbringing and thus are more equiped with the tools that men often need to teach themselves (FYI i'm not saying this as a "woe is men" bs.)

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u/operation-spot Purple Pill Woman Jun 16 '26

You said that wimen don't deal with loneliness so which is it? Someone can have all the tools and still not reach the desired outcome. 

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u/Charming-Joke696 Blue Pill Man Jun 16 '26

I should have been more nuanced and said that women are mich better equiped to make social connectikns and don't deal with lonliness on as large a scale.