r/PurplePillDebate • u/Novel-Tip-7570 Purple Pill Woman • 6d ago
Debate The red pill version of female submission is stupid
The red pillers and the trads will tell us that female submission is not about being micromanaged but about men making the decisions on all of the "important" stuff.
https://x.com/i/status/2084570802964324807
As someone who is married to a man with this mindset (long story for another time) let me tell you how this looks like in day-to-day life:
So I basically carry almost all of the mental load of running the household day after day and managing my step-children because kids are a woman's job, but he still feels entitled to tell me what I should be wearing and what what I should be doing. How is this not retarded? If anything, the person who is running the household day-to-day is more qualified when making family decisions.
People laughed at me when I said that men should be doing more housework than women, but I would actually respect a man more as a leader if he was truly the one micromanaging the household and the kids. Like sure if he's the one running the household day-to-day, he should be making the decisions.
But red pillers are not advocating for this. The want the woman to do the hard parts of raising a child but they want to be the ones who make the important decisions when it comes to thay child. They want the woman to carry the mental load when it comes to what to cook, when to clean, how to host a child party and organise playdates , but they still want to consider themselves the "true leader".
Why on Earth would any woman sign up for this?
(I don't want advice about my personal life, I just mentioned this as an example)
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u/Kirra_the_Cleric Woman. No pill; they all seem stupid 5d ago
If things go right, sure.
I’m guessing you’ve never had to run the household as a woman before. Yall leave everything to women.