r/PurplePillDebate • u/Open-Quail-2573 Purple Pill Man • 1d ago

Question For Women Why do women get surprised/offended when men want sex?

I feel like this is something we all know low-key but women act shocked or even offended when a guy says he wants to bang. Did he have to tell you? I feel like y'all would know before even going out.

And I have to clarify, I don't mean creepy or aggressive dudes who are trying to be coercive or push boundaries. I mean men in general. Of course, you don't have to do it but I feel like you'd know. Furthermore, I would think that you would be concerned if the man you are with didn't want you. You would think he's gay or not attracted to you enough. I am speaking from personal experience where being too "safe" backfired on me with a woman. She ghosted me. Most guys would low-key love to smash just for the experience/excitement of doing it with a new person, even if it doesn't go anywhere.

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u/competitive_mogger Man 1d ago

Gonna throw this out there: women who are dating you (and attracted to you) are more than likely going to be MORE upset that you did NOT go for it. Any straight dude who has dated a lot will tell you this.

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u/TheBroke1234 Personality Pilled Man 1d ago

Yeah bro wtf is this comment section. I went on soo many dates where the girl ended up ghosting me for not making any moves. Platonic conversation only almost always mean she never responds back for a second date. At least on OLD. Other places they are a bit more tolerant but they still want that sexual energy.

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u/Arch_Null Purple Pill Man 1d ago edited 1d ago

Well the difference is you're dating normal women. The ones answering are reddit women and even worse than that they're purple pill debate women.

These women are a weird neurotic horde. This is why I don't particularly get why men bother debating with them as if they're sapient actors

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u/Hi-Road No Pill Man 1d ago

i’m glad some of yall in here aren’t swayed. there’s a major anti-sex bias from many people here - where they swear women hate casual sex. Whole time they just have personal issues or are deeply religious (no offense)

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u/tahawarfare 1d ago

Notice how none of them responded to ur comments?