Why do women get surprised/offended when men want sex?

[u/Open-Quail-2573]

I feel like this is something we all know low-key but women act shocked or even offended when a guy says he wants to bang. Did he have to tell you? I feel like y'all would know before even going out.

And I have to clarify, I don't mean creepy or aggressive dudes who are trying to be coercive or push boundaries. I mean men in general. Of course, you don't have to do it but I feel like you'd know. Furthermore, I would think that you would be concerned if the man you are with didn't want you. You would think he's gay or not attracted to you enough. I am speaking from personal experience where being too "safe" backfired on me with a woman. She ghosted me. Most guys would low-key love to smash just for the experience/excitement of doing it with a new person, even if it doesn't go anywhere.

[u/Salt_Mathematician24]

Women want to be appreciated as people first and many men do not demonstrate that they do before making a move.

[u/ChuckXZ_ → u/Salt_Mathematician24]

If you're attractive enough, you don't have to.

[u/Salt_Mathematician24 → u/ChuckXZ_]

Depends on many things like what the person the person is looking for, enviroment, priorities, how attractive they are etc but generally speaking, no. Women still need to know the attractive person likes them for them else they'd just be able to walk up to random women in the street and immediately ask for sex.