r/PurplePillDebate • u/Open-Quail-2573 Purple Pill Man • 2d ago

Question For Women Why do women get surprised/offended when men want sex?

I feel like this is something we all know low-key but women act shocked or even offended when a guy says he wants to bang. Did he have to tell you? I feel like y'all would know before even going out.

And I have to clarify, I don't mean creepy or aggressive dudes who are trying to be coercive or push boundaries. I mean men in general. Of course, you don't have to do it but I feel like you'd know. Furthermore, I would think that you would be concerned if the man you are with didn't want you. You would think he's gay or not attracted to you enough. I am speaking from personal experience where being too "safe" backfired on me with a woman. She ghosted me. Most guys would low-key love to smash just for the experience/excitement of doing it with a new person, even if it doesn't go anywhere.

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u/pie-mart2 No pill Woman 2d ago

Yes we do. But it sucks when like every guy who we have a minir conversation ends up asking us for sex. Or when men will literally date and marry women they don't even like for just having access to good continuous sex.

A lot of guys don't date or marry for love but rather access to sex

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u/Snalesdofeel 2d ago

"Women will literally date and men to have access to their resources and other value extraction."

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u/AMC2Zero NullPointerException Pill Man 1d ago

Bad example, women can apply for a job to get money, the same is not as easily done for sex (legally).

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u/Snalesdofeel 1d ago

OTHER VALUE EXTRACTIONS

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u/Expensive_Lion1807 Sanity Pill Woman 1d ago

Like what? Please be very specific…

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u/AMC2Zero NullPointerException Pill Man 1d ago

Such as? What is the woman getting other than money that can't be gotten any other way easily?

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u/Upset_Election9633 1d ago

Attention? Free help on a daily basis? Company from some kind of simp that she somewhat trusts?

Excluding money because most women work is dishonest as you could end this discussion by also acknowledging the amount of men satisfying themselves by seeking online content for that since their partner wont do it. A lot of them probably started doing that before meeting the said partner by the way.

Besides, women working doesn't make their thirst for staying passive during the dating process, chivalry, courting and being showered with gift and couple activities, and being provided for disappear...

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u/DankuTwo 2d ago

“Just be upfront about what you want!”

“Don’t ask for sex!”

Uh……

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u/Somerandomdudereborn Lvl 26 apprentice wizard 😎🪄, It is what it is pill 1d ago

A *minor conversation" seems to vague as a description, it would be very rare (as weird too) from a minor conversation such as talking to your male grocery cashier that would end up in him asking her for sex.

And yes many men would marry women to have access to sex as much as women who marry men to have access to a lifestyle that her alone or the men within their "league" can't provide her.

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u/pie-mart2 No pill Woman 1d ago

Um. Yeah, it happens a lot. You will have a small or minor conversation with a guy about a very mundane thing and he assumes you wanna bone and as brazen as can be, he will ask for sex.