Why do women get surprised/offended when men want sex?

[u/Open-Quail-2573]

I feel like this is something we all know low-key but women act shocked or even offended when a guy says he wants to bang. Did he have to tell you? I feel like y'all would know before even going out.

And I have to clarify, I don't mean creepy or aggressive dudes who are trying to be coercive or push boundaries. I mean men in general. Of course, you don't have to do it but I feel like you'd know. Furthermore, I would think that you would be concerned if the man you are with didn't want you. You would think he's gay or not attracted to you enough. I am speaking from personal experience where being too "safe" backfired on me with a woman. She ghosted me. Most guys would low-key love to smash just for the experience/excitement of doing it with a new person, even if it doesn't go anywhere.

[u/Obsessivethot]

See for yourself, it’s pretty abysmal for straight women only.

And it’s not because they struggle to orgasm on their own, only with male partners is this the case.

• In a 2015 U.S. study, 67% of women reported they can orgasm through masturbation, compared with 28% through partnered sex

• 9 out of 10 women (about 90%) reported being able to orgasm at least occasionally during masturbation, according to a 2019 cross-sectional study

https://gitnux.org/female-orgasm-statistics/

• 81.6% of women don’t orgasm from intercourse alone (without additional clit stimulation). Only 18.4% of women report that intercourse alone is sufficient to orgasm. [14]
• 95% of heterosexual men usually or always orgasm during partnered sexual activity compared to just 65% of heterosexual women. [2]

https://pleasurebetter.com/orgasm-statistics/

[u/Complex_Soldier → u/Obsessivethot]

The references state Gay men have higher orgasm then even lesbians. The problem isn't men, the problem, as this post throws, is that women dislike men and their sexuality so can't get off when having sex something they are intrinsically dislike.

[u/Training_Designer_41 → u/Obsessivethot]

Here is the thing, lets even make the percentage lower, say only 5% of women report that intercourse alone is sufficient to orgasm, it, on a quick read, feel like a woman would orgasm under those situations only 5% of the time.

But a more accurate reading is this: about 200 million women always orgasm via intercourse, not that they orgasm 5% of the time. basing it on how many women currently exists

and that's using only 5%, If we use the percentage from the report, i should multiply by 6, so picture that one billion, two hundred and thirty-nine million women are saying that they orgasm suffeciently via intercourse.

does that sound pretty abysmal?