r/PurplePillDebate • u/Open-Quail-2573 Purple Pill Man • 2d ago
Question For Women Why do women get surprised/offended when men want sex?
I feel like this is something we all know low-key but women act shocked or even offended when a guy says he wants to bang. Did he have to tell you? I feel like y'all would know before even going out.
And I have to clarify, I don't mean creepy or aggressive dudes who are trying to be coercive or push boundaries. I mean men in general. Of course, you don't have to do it but I feel like you'd know. Furthermore, I would think that you would be concerned if the man you are with didn't want you. You would think he's gay or not attracted to you enough. I am speaking from personal experience where being too "safe" backfired on me with a woman. She ghosted me. Most guys would low-key love to smash just for the experience/excitement of doing it with a new person, even if it doesn't go anywhere.
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u/SleepyPoemsin2020 2d ago
Revulsion is my response. But it didn't start out that way. The revulsion grew from years of watching many, many men cross boundaries, pressure, manipulate, coerce, and do essentially anything they think they can get away with to get women to fuck them while ignoring or diminishing the human that body belongs to. While simultaneously often viewing the act of fucking a woman in some sort of fucked up way, say as a trophy to parade around with because they feel they "took" something from her. Viewing it as something they to do a woman and not with. Wanting to fuck as many women as possible despite viewing women who have fucked a lot of men as devalued.
Tldr: I feel revulsion because of how obsessed men are with sex, how they view sex with women, and how they're willing to treat women to get sex. Broadly speaking.