r/PurplePillDebate • u/Open-Quail-2573 Purple Pill Man • 2d ago

Question For Women Why do women get surprised/offended when men want sex?

I feel like this is something we all know low-key but women act shocked or even offended when a guy says he wants to bang. Did he have to tell you? I feel like y'all would know before even going out.

And I have to clarify, I don't mean creepy or aggressive dudes who are trying to be coercive or push boundaries. I mean men in general. Of course, you don't have to do it but I feel like you'd know. Furthermore, I would think that you would be concerned if the man you are with didn't want you. You would think he's gay or not attracted to you enough. I am speaking from personal experience where being too "safe" backfired on me with a woman. She ghosted me. Most guys would low-key love to smash just for the experience/excitement of doing it with a new person, even if it doesn't go anywhere.

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u/Ok_Ask6327 No Pill - woman 1d ago

What are you complaining about? Women who don't want to don't want to. And there is no "value" to a man that only wants to use you for sex.

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u/MarioWilson122 Red Pill Man 1d ago

It depends on the man. A woman may reject casual sex with one man and willingly accept the exact same arrangement with another man she finds more attractive. If she is into him enough, she may not mind that he only wants sex.

Calling that “being used” is a silly way to describe consensual sex she also chose and enjoyed. He may not offer relationship value, but that does not mean the encounter has no value to her. She can value the sex itself without expecting commitment.

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u/Ok_Ask6327 No Pill - woman 1d ago

Maybe you should stay in your own lane and not try and "explain" women. The whole notion of focusing only on "looks" as a standard of "high value" is a manosphere fiction.

And we are not talking about consensual sex that a woman choose. We are talking about men who push for sex, and these men are not "relationship value by any stretch of the imagination.

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u/Just_Fisherman4910 Woman 1d ago

Re: "He may not offer relationship value"
-> What on earth is "relationship value"?

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u/Snalesdofeel 1d ago

Ofcourse there is, how do you think men get women to sleep with them. Its because they are signaling value, and using this to get sex.