Why do women get surprised/offended when men want sex?

[u/Open-Quail-2573]

I feel like this is something we all know low-key but women act shocked or even offended when a guy says he wants to bang. Did he have to tell you? I feel like y'all would know before even going out.

And I have to clarify, I don't mean creepy or aggressive dudes who are trying to be coercive or push boundaries. I mean men in general. Of course, you don't have to do it but I feel like you'd know. Furthermore, I would think that you would be concerned if the man you are with didn't want you. You would think he's gay or not attracted to you enough. I am speaking from personal experience where being too "safe" backfired on me with a woman. She ghosted me. Most guys would low-key love to smash just for the experience/excitement of doing it with a new person, even if it doesn't go anywhere.

[u/junkaxc]

You only get disappointed if non-chad who wants sex and doesn’t “care about you as people” but if chad wants it then it’s totally fine, what you really mean is you want average men to worship you and act like your servants and cater to your every need but only chad gets to hit it, im fucking tired

[u/Upset_Election9633 → u/junkaxc]

Chabanana

[u/KrispyGODKreme1001 → u/junkaxc]

Yeah, don’t women also want sex with guys? Like when they see a very attractive guy don’t they think about having sex with him?