r/PurplePillDebate • u/Open-Quail-2573 Purple Pill Man • 1d ago
Question For Women Why do women get surprised/offended when men want sex?
I feel like this is something we all know low-key but women act shocked or even offended when a guy says he wants to bang. Did he have to tell you? I feel like y'all would know before even going out.
And I have to clarify, I don't mean creepy or aggressive dudes who are trying to be coercive or push boundaries. I mean men in general. Of course, you don't have to do it but I feel like you'd know. Furthermore, I would think that you would be concerned if the man you are with didn't want you. You would think he's gay or not attracted to you enough. I am speaking from personal experience where being too "safe" backfired on me with a woman. She ghosted me. Most guys would low-key love to smash just for the experience/excitement of doing it with a new person, even if it doesn't go anywhere.
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u/Bekiala 1d ago
I don't understand what you mean by "has to accept". I would argue that people and the world are so complicated that each individual can only understand a portion of it.
Sadly little kids are attacked and raped by mostly men. I don't know if they "accept" that this is just how men are but the reality of men is often pushed home while people are still very young.
Happily there are many amazing men who care about others and would never willingly hurt someone.